I am so stressed we are moving soon as its become a headache

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We are finally moving and I am stressed because

The kids wont sleep in their own room, so in with dp every night I can not sleep.

I have hated it here and we are finally leaving , so I should be happy that we are starting all over , especially after years of verbal abuse and threats from the neighbors , I am crying because we are leaving.

I have a massive campaign to do before we move at work, and I can not even decided what we are going to eat for tea every time I get home from work.

Please advise me.

And we bought a new house and everyone can park outside their new house except for us I need to get a grip how can I make life easier until we go.

And I have permanent back ache, and dp is 40 next week argghh.

you need to sleep. If the dc sleep wiith dp, can you sleep in their room(just on a mattress)? Is there some other solution to this?

Simple meals. Salad and a ham sandwich is fine

Why can't you park in front of your new home?

The kids wont sleep in their own room, so in with dp every night I can not sleep. - Sleep in kids room so you don't have to swap beds in middle of night.

I have hated it here and we are finally leaving , so I should be happy that we are starting all over , especially after years of verbal abuse and threats from the neighbors , I am crying because we are leaving. - Be happy you are leaving.

I have a massive campaign to do before we move at work, - delegate some of the work.

and I can not even decided what we are going to eat for tea every time I get home from work. - write a menu plan and do an online shop so you have the ingredients.

And we bought a new house and everyone can park outside their new house except for us - where can you park?

And I have permanent back ache, - see a physio

dp is 40 next week - buy him a card and present and then celebrate.

We have been allocated two spaces everyones is in front of their house the new neighbor is outside our house we have to park opposite the other side of the road.

Not far I know but Im peeved, especially as I want to keep a eye on our cars because we have had problems where we live at the moment.

I am so tired, trying to use what's left in the freezer but can not think straight with what goes with what, stupid I know.

I am just crashing where I can find a bed, the dc's have always shared a room together they are very close so they will finally have their own rooms.

Family have gone away on holidays and I am so stressed.

Thank you for the kind words Cece and the advice I am not being ungrateful seems like I am , just so relieved I am scared I guess.

Thanks zzz for responding I am tired, we can park just not where I would like to have parked.

Yes I will keep it simple for meals.

you do sound tired, is it getting any better?

Totally understand and empathise. We are moving next week, we have sold our house and the one we are going to buy isn't ready for a few months so we are going into rented where there is no space to park on the street. I am 6 weeks off giving birth to DS2, ds1 being a toddler who is yet to sleep through the night. Plus DH starts a new job 10 days after due to give birth which will mean for the duration of his 3 months training he will be living midweek 200 miles away.

When I think about it all in one, I cry. So trying v hard to separate out each thing that way it is not too overwhelming. Hope that helps.

Moving is stressful. i remember packing everything while DH tried to finish building a kayak!! which is now rotting in our back garden I was not impressed and he knew it.

I'm still unsure why your DC cant sleep in their own room. You definitely need to get some though and can't carry on like this.

I was using freezer stuff up and we had what I called 'pot luck suppers' everyone knew it needed to be used, nothing was too way out or wacky and we ate. Don't over think it OP.

Speak to your DP perhaps you could give him a card and gift on the day, but if he was thinking of a bigger celebration perhaps that could be postponed.

I do think it odd that your neighbour has the parking space directly outside your house. Would they swap one space with you?