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AIBU?

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To be annoyed by work colleagues contacting me while on maternity leave?

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maternitart · 16/06/2013 21:04

On holiday last week - while on mat leave too - I received two phone calls, a number of emails to my personal account and a text regarding work from 3 different people. I'm 7 months into my leave and don't plan to return for a while. It's clear my personal number and email have been given out even to colleagues who I don't know or haven't really met.

I do check my work email from time to time too. I've just had an email from a colleague saying that apparently I've agreed to do a client conference call this week, and a client meeting next month, and what time can I do the call? (This is all bollocks - I haven't agreed to anything - but relates to the call/email/texts I got in the last week and it seems something has been promised without checking with me.)

It's hard as I'm friends with some of the colleagues in question and I don't want to be a prat about it, but to me maternity leave is sacred, I'll never get this time back, and I actually find it quite stressful when I get these requests saying they NEED me to help (I was not replaced when I went on leave) or that they've already set up meetings for me with clients!

I have done some KIT days, and I am happy to consider them if they suit me (i.e. the work load is realistic, I can help and I can sort childcare), but AIBU to be pissed off at this, that they assume I am available? What are my legal rights? Should I just suck it up as I should be grateful to have a job?

(NC'ed as this might out me)

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maternitart · 18/06/2013 18:41

Karoleann I think you're right, it seems now I've done a KIT day I'm fair game.

To be fair to them, I did say I would potentially up for KIT days before I went on leave so maybe they think they're doing me a favour considering me. It seems someone has been a bit liberal with my personal details for the same reason. I'm being firm with them anyway.

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sparklekitty · 18/06/2013 20:03

I'm pretty sure its the same as if you're signed off sick, don't think they're even supposed to contact you.

My head was very careful when she contacted me on ML to only refer to DD and how I was doing etc, nothing related to work.

YDNBU

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