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Should women be allowed to do everything men do?

283 replies

Hullygully · 13/06/2013 11:08

Talk to me about equality.

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Sparklymommy · 13/06/2013 12:05

Very interested in the possibility of being able to reproduce without the need for a man. Scary thought that!

Buzzardbird · 13/06/2013 12:05

Is it acceptable to shorten 'submarine' to 'sub' now then Hully?

GrumpyKat · 13/06/2013 12:05

I AM Brian Blessed. And a feminist. All my jars are open in a line.

VinegarDrinker · 13/06/2013 12:07

I think that's one of the biggest myths about feminism - that it is incompatible with being a SAHM.

I think what does fly in the face of feminism is individuals and society assuming that someone will want to take on a certain role in terms of childcare or paid work just because of their gender.

Buzzardbird · 13/06/2013 12:07

Gordans alive!

VinegarDrinker · 13/06/2013 12:08

Btw are women 'allowed' in front line combat now btw or am I misinformed about that too?

limitedperiodonly · 13/06/2013 12:09

You'll never regret that sparkly

I'm wearing jeans and no bra as I type.

I offer that mental image up to certain posters for nothing.

Blistory · 13/06/2013 12:11

I agree about the myths.

There's a distinction between pointing out that a particular stance isn't a feminist one and telling a woman not to do something which seems to be at the root of a lot of the conflict. Feminism is often mistaken as women telling women what they can and cannot do when often it is simply pointing out that a particular action isn't feminist.

LeGavrOrf · 13/06/2013 12:11

Don't buy shit in jars.

What do they sell in jars which is essential, really? Pickled eggs?

LeGavrOrf · 13/06/2013 12:12

Still lots of roles in the armed forces which are barred to women, that includes front line combat.

mmmerangue · 13/06/2013 12:12

MIL, SAHM for most of her children's lives at least, has one of the most equal and woman-forward mindsets I know of, and one of the most equal relationships with her husband.

They spend most of the time ripping the piss out of each other, truth be told.

VinegarDrinker · 13/06/2013 12:16

Bit tangential, but I am a huge advocate of more shared parenting so I guess on a personal level I can't imagine being a SAHM as it would mean my DH having to work more hours and denying him the equal parenting relationship he currently enjoys as a result of being at home with DS two weekdays (actually more than me).

But that's not to say I don't support anyone who does choose that path, as long as it is a choice.

(I'm sure you'll sleep better at night knowing you have my blessing Wink)

ifyourehoppyandyouknowit · 13/06/2013 12:17

Pickled beetroot and pickled onion. Both essentials.

Is it anti feminist to wear a bra? I's knock out small children like skittles if I left my boobs to roam free.

SoupDragon · 13/06/2013 12:17

Are we not equal but different?

I don't think the two are mutually exclusive.

I think women and men should be free to do whatever they wish.

There are things I can't do because I am not as strong as someone else - not necessarily a man. That doesn't mean I am not their equal.

Sheshelob · 13/06/2013 12:19

Limited Grin

menz would love that. They'd prefer you doing the dishes and wearing a noice suspender belt, though. And not typing but dancing. Coz it's your choice and they want to support that.

throckenholt · 13/06/2013 12:19

Don't buy shit in jars.

good advice that Grin

I am going to adopt it as my motto.

digerd · 13/06/2013 12:20

What I can't stand with the men I know, is this elitist male fraternity bond and think they are more intelligent than women and far more important even though all are terrified of my 81 year-old nasty piece of work battleaxe female neighbour. Grin.

VinegarDrinker · 13/06/2013 12:21

I can't live without pesto or capers Sad

cupcake78 · 13/06/2013 12:21

"Allowed"???? Seriously that one word is far worse.

ilovechips · 13/06/2013 12:28

The Royal Navy announced in 2011 that women will be allowed to serve on submarines from late 2013...I am having trouble seeing how a female can already have had time to say they used to be in command of a submarine...

www.royalnavy.mod.uk/News-and-Events/Latest-News/2011/December/08/111208-HW-Submarines-Females

Bonsoir · 13/06/2013 12:30

VinegarDrinker - I just pasta tonno e capperi for lunch. Both tuna and capers came in jars.

Fortunately DSS1 is home revising to open them Grin

Sparklymommy · 13/06/2013 12:30

Pickled eggs, onions, gherkins, beet root... All essential. As is marmite.

Soooooo... Must I now throw away my stockings and corsets :/ ...

DioneTheDiabolist · 13/06/2013 12:30

I am not allowed to do gardening. This is quite problematic as I am a single mum with a front & back garden which need mown, weeded etc.Sad. I think that the govt should introduce some sort of employment scheme whereby men come to my home on a regular basis and do it for me.

I can't afford a gardener.Sad

limitedperiodonly · 13/06/2013 12:30

Actually she I do need to do the dishes. Excuse me while I slip into something a little more uncomfortable.

Sheshelob · 13/06/2013 12:33

Not at all, sparkly. That is your business.

There is no dress code to this feminist lark. Although, I do wear my husband's sweaters when I am cold.

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