Cross-post (sort of) in Legal Matters, but I really need some advice.
Long story, short version: we had to move out of our old house because there was raw sewage and asbestos throughout the lounge. After two months of staying with family while we waited for it to be fixed, we gave up and accepted the letting agent's suggestion of immediate surrender of the tenancy.
The contractor who uncovered the asbestos said that because the tiles in question were broken up and disintegrating, we needed to stay out of the house because that's when asbestos is at its most dangerous. We had already taken most of our personal effects and furniture out anyway, but the two bedrooms my children had used needed repainting because there were scribbles and marks on the walls. Ordinarily we would have repainted that before moving out because it definitely isn't "fair wear and tear". The rest of the house was awful when we moved in - scuffed walls, hadn't been decorated in years, dirty carpets that stank of dog wee (the LL's dogs btw!) - and was in pretty much the same state, with maybe a few more scuffs on the hall and stairs wall as you'd expect in a high traffic area.
The landlord is trying to keep our entire deposit - over £1000 - and has listed a load of stuff alongside repainting the two bedrooms. Mostly they want US to cover the cost of painting the whole house (except the lounge, that's totally separate and covered by their insurance), making it new and shiny. It wasn't new and bloody shiny when we moved in!
We told them we were raising a dispute with the deposit protection scheme, and they've responded by threatening to take us to court. I don't know what they're thinking of taking us to court for, or if it's a ploy to freak us out and put us off raising the dispute. I just need some helpful advice.
Please be gentle with me on this, lovely vipers, as I'm all stressed out over it already.
There are more details on the thread in Legal Matters here: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/legal_matters/1771838-Disputing-deductions-from-deposit?msgid=39601188#39601188