It seems that more and more of the things that my dc enjoy for the activity's sake, because its fun, or they can see their own personal progress are being made competitive, either by offering a prize or by giving a "worker of the week" type award. Obviously, some things are always going to have competition involved, but dd's had prizes for homework that would have been interesting anyway and ds's preschool activity now has a trophy given out each week, which makes some children quite upset. They used to love the activity anyway, it was challenging but with hugely enthusiastic coaches who praise and support. They all make progress, able and less so alike. So why the need to rank one person against another?