To cut a long story short my nephew was born 4 weeks ago, fairly traumatic birth, ending in an emergency section.
My 'lovely' brother bugger off the next day, and slept with another woman. He brazenly went back to his baby's mum B covered in 'love bites'.
She forgave him after a week of him piss arising around and acting in an utterly shameful manner.
This week, he decided to leave again. He said he wants his mates, doesn't want a family and be was forced here (2 hours from where we are all originally from).
This is bull. He planned the baby with her (he told me himself, and I told him he was an idiot, b was 16, he 21. His ex and mother to his first child was 15 when they planned a baby...). It was his idea for them to move here - He emotionally blackmailed B in to this. No one forced him - quite the opposite!
Anyway, he's moved in with this woman apparently (she has a kid too). After threatening various people leading to half the town gossiping because of the public spectacle he has made - he decided people must be gossiping because of me and B and threatened us both (I am pregnant too!). I am disgusted with his behaviour to his own family, children and the mother of his child. I could not be more ashamed. I'm fed up of him making us all look like something off Jeremy kyle.
I've also discovered he's been stealing from my house (I went over to help B and found things he swore he hasn't taken).
Now, my mum. I wish shed shut up about it. I'm fucking upset. I'm upset at forgiving him yet again for him to turn around and threaten me, I'm ashamed of his behaviour, the way he's treated that poor girl, apparently he's been violent too (doesn't surprise me).
But she makes excuses and goes on 'I don't want people threatening him ' -erm hold on he's the one doing the threatening. 'Why is his ex L involved she should keep her nose out' - ERM, maybe if he hasn't rang her at gone 11 telling her everything and threatening her she would have no reason to say anything.. 'Ah well he found a video of her doing such and such and getting his daughter to say bad words' '- yeah he knew about it ages ago its a year old he told me about it. 'She knows if she winds him up he'll lash out' - oh that makes it OK.
My favourite - 'I won't be happy if you report him to the police he's on a suspended sentence its not fair on me' - he shouldn't break the fucking law then! Sorry! Should Fred west have been let off as well in case his mum was upset?
I'm meant to take threats off him yeah? A man whose beaten the shit out of me several times for no reason, and attacked me when I was pregnant before? Attacked numerous women?
'People need to ignore him' - no, people should not have to walk around pretending they're not hearing the vile abuse he spouts.
I could go on I really could. Its depressing me. I feel like running far away so I'm not near any of them. The only person I care about in this mess is B and her son, and my brothers eldest child. My brother plays the victim and she buys it - I can guarantee his next move - he'll threaten someone bigger and harder, get a smack in the mouth and my mum will be blaming every fucker else.
Aibu? Sorry its long. I'm just fed up they're draining me.