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to ask them not to kick their ball against my wall/house?

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HootShoot · 07/06/2013 19:41

We've had problems with these neighbours before. I once asked their teenage boys really really nicely to play around the corner as they were making a racket with their skateboards. I was trying to get my screaming 7mo to sleep at the time and in hindsight I probably shouldn't have said anything but I was so sleep deprived at the time having had no more than 2 hours sleep at a time back then. They were fine about it but told their dad who proceeded to make life awful for us by getting on a mobility scooter which he doesn't use in day to day life but just "plays" on it, he and his kids take it in turns to race around our cul de sac and he would drive up and down in front of our house playing music on a getto blaster. He did this for days on end at our dd's bedtime. I didn't even know they still made getto blasters! In the end I went round and asked to draw a truce. He claimed it was just a coincidence that he chose to play music in front of our house when he lives round the corner.

Things calmed down after that and we haven't had any problems for a year but they are back out there tonight kicking a ball up against our house and the thudding is really loud. I'd like to ask them to stop but am worried that I'm either being precious or that it will just cause more trouble for us. I'm probably getting upset about it because of what happened last time so wanted to get other people's views.

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Elquota · 07/06/2013 19:45

Grow a prickly plant up the side of the house?

marjproops · 07/06/2013 19:47

report them to the council or whoever. and explain their former behaviour, thats disgusting and deliberate what they did.

do you have a DH who could go out and tell thyem? and dont they have their own walls to kick a ball on? or a park nearby?

do they go and do that to other neighbours?
whatever you do DONT go round their house, man sounds dangerous.

Bluebell99 · 07/06/2013 19:48

Poor you. they sound horrible. I can't believe anyone would think it was acceptable to kick a ball against the side of someone else's house.

HootShoot · 07/06/2013 20:12

They reacted so badly to us last time I now worry about what is and isn't normal! He really is horrible, when I spoke to him last time he said we were always complaining about him and how he couldn't even play music in his car without us moaning - we had never spoken to him before so we obviously aren't the first to complain about the noise they make. In the time its taken me to cook dinner they've gone away so I don't have to do or say anything now thankfully. Thanks for your advice and also for making me feel I'm not BU!

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Bluebell99 · 07/06/2013 23:21

Actually, I really admire you for having the guts to go and speak to them. When my neighbours annoy me, I mainly just inwardly fume. And mine are no way near as bad as yours. Mine sometimes play loud music in the garden. I have never spoken to them about it.

marjproops · 08/06/2013 19:31

mine had visitors today and their boys were kickig a ball against my fence so i told them off and they told me to foxtrot oscar (they looked about 7 years old, charming).
well if they break the fence ill tell the council, its their fence.

punter · 08/06/2013 20:41

My neighbours boys kick footballs against our fence which is about 10 foot from our living rom, so it is annoying. I did ask them not to do it last time they came round to retrieve the ball. Next thing I know the mother tells my DH that 'I am the worst neighbour in the world and that her children should be allowed to enjoy their garden. Also we should consider moving to the country if we do not like it'. I was so flabbergasted I did not sleep. My DH was also lost for words although I think she frightened him and he is a natural coward.

Shelly32 · 08/06/2013 21:04

I feel for you. We moved for this very reason. I called the police three or four times and they were useless. They kept posting 'Victim Support' leaflets through my door but were no support whatsoever. The kids even chased them down the road screaming obscenities one time they came around to check. I would have laughed if I hadn't felt like crying! It felt like bullying. I tried to reason with them and be nice but nothing worked.
They drove me insane with the constant thudding and the breaking of my fence they were thudding against.The kids were 11-13yrs old and eventually I went to their schools to talk to their headmasters. That did more than the police ever did. Find out where they go to school; there can't be that many in the area. Get pics on your phone too. Good luck!

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