Never to have sex with H again?

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He just sent me this text:

I hate [stuff he hates] even more than you hate sex!

He thinks he is being funny - in the haha sense. I think he's being a whiney, passive agressive arse about it, and that this text alone is a damn good reason to give him plenty of actual reasons to whine.

We usually have sex at least twice a week, by the way, so it's not as though he never gets any.

The whiney arse is home ... he now says he meant anal sex. Which I really do hate and he never gets. Apparently I ought to have realised this.

... as though that makes it any better!

And, yes, AnyFucker I know exactly how this sounds. It sounds as though I'm a complete doormat!

Yes, it does. Why do you put up with it ?

uggghhh horrible, just horrible

Interestingly, that is one of the way DP lets me know he is in the mood "you never give me a BJ" But its a joke, which is a huge difference, its said in a mock sulky, woe is me tone of voice ands its funny. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't :) But if he made a comment like that, he would have to become a contortionist if he wanted his cock sucked again

Um ... arguably because I am a complete doormat.

I'm terrified of being alone. My mother was my age when she left my father. He's been married twice since - she's never even had a boyfriend. I don't want to end up like that!

Disclaimer: Before anybody points out how irrational this is: I'm fully aware of that. Doesn't help, though.

Stack I didn't think it was likely that you really do hate sex, I was just trying to get my head around why he said it. It's a really bizarre thing to say! He does sound very whiney and rather unpleasant :(

I would rather be alone than badly unaccompanied

It's a cliche

But a wayyyyyy more sensible one than the one you have got going on

This bloke whines for anal sex

While you are at work ?

He doesn't deserve the time of day.

Do the Marmite Tower thang if you want to. But fgs, don't do it to make him STFU

There are more effective ways of making a whiner STFU, and it doesn't involve compromising yourself

The text had nothing to do with your exchange then? So what the jeffing hell made him say it then? I would be furious at this. Who the fuck texts something like that during the middle of the working day?

Has he explained himself?

I think he has "explained himself" quite clearly, tbh

oh I missed the end of this thread. Bollocks

Marmite tower sounds altogether too tasty for the muckiness you describe anyfucker

Perhaps my Marmite Tower visual killed the thread

I wonder what happened to OP though ...

oh bloody hell, has she disappeared? I'm ashamed to say I hadn't twigged! I struggle to remember who's said what - unless the name is really memorable or the posts have a particularly distinct 'flavour'

perhaps your marmite tower is the mn equivalent of that guys theory about people calling each other nazis on the internet and ending any debate. Maybe on here it all comes down to arse sex

Trash, you need to use the nifty little facility "highlight posts by OP"

ooooh. I'll investigate ta!

and the thing is done cheers!

Every day is a school day

Wow that's unbelievable, I could not stay with a man who said that.