to be pissed off at fil regarding seatbelts

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dc's are picked up on Thursdays from school by pil, I was passing at pick up time today and dc's saw me. They wanted me to give them a kiss goodbye. When I went round to ds' s (4) side of the car his seatbelt was under his arm and round the outside of his high backed booster. So I adjusted it through shoulder guide. Ds started to moan saying grandad lets me wear it the other way fil says yes hes comfier that way I am raging, that they would even consider using it incorrectly

Maybe also tell FIL it's a fixed penalty fine of £60 if the dcs under 14 are in his car not wearing a seat belt properly, or fine of £500 if it goes to court.

am going to speak to fil too. I haven't seen him since. ds and I had a talk at bedtime. dd is 6. Dh will see him next so he is going to have a word.

How old is your other child(ren)? Could they monitor it and tel grandad to do it properly or they are not allowed in his car.