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AIBU?

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Because I was female???

30 replies

Summerblaze · 28/05/2013 10:36

I was queueing for a ride yesterday with my DD which had a height limit. As we were stood there a couple of children came off the ride who were as small as my DS1 who I had told couldn't come on with us. I called over to DH who sent him over.

We waited and when I paid the man saw DS1 and asked if he could measure him. As I knew, he was about 2 inches under the line. I figured the other kids had been missed by him and that was how they had got on so I said never mind to DS1 (who then was distraught as he has developmental delay so while he is 5, he didn't understand why he couldn't go on) and took him back to DH.

I went back to rejoin my DD and just before we went on, a man came on with 4 kids. Man clocked the littlest one and asked to measure him. He also was 2 inches under so guy said he couldn't go on. The man then said 'go on mate, he's been on before' so the guy said ok then. I was fuming. Was going to say something but he walked off and went on his break I assume.

Was this because I was female. Can't think of any other reason why he would let one go on and not the other.

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Naysa · 28/05/2013 12:39

Why would you want your child to go on a ride they were too small for? The other person got their kids on by whinging and not giving a crap about their children's safety.

Don't really see why you're bringing gender into this at all tbh Hmm

YABU

CrowsLanding · 28/05/2013 12:42

YABU by wanting to put your child at risk by getting him on a ride he was too small for Shock

Trapper · 28/05/2013 12:55

It is possible that your DC was not allowed on because you are female/black/disabled/ginger/too old/too young/ foreign looking. I However it is far more probable tat your child was not allowed on because DC was too short and the ride operator did not feel confident your child would be safe on the ride.

Summerblaze · 28/05/2013 16:43

Does anyone read the whole thread as I have actually agreed that I am U but am still getting blasted.

If someone does something and never admits they are wrong then they are blasted too.

Confused
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UserError · 30/05/2013 01:05

We cross-posted, OP, but I still stand by my rant. Kudos to you for admitting you we're being unreasonable though, not many people do.

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