Bit of background, me, dh, ds and dd live with mil, saving for a house. We get on well with mil, usually no problems, I mean there is the usual things that get a bit annoying but I guess that comes with living together and being around each other more than usual, nothing dramatic :)
Anyway, my dh recently got a new job, more hours. So is very very stressed, understandably! I do my best to make sure when he gets home he can sit down and not worry about stuff. On his days off we do everything equally, tidying, etc.
my sister is moving to another country in a few months, I barely get to see her as it is but she'll be halfway across the world so ill never get to see her :( so I said to dh that this weekend because I had a bit of spare money I'd go and see her, stay over and come back the next day (she lives far away) dh is working the Saturday but is off the Sunday, I arranged for someone to watch the kids until dh gets back from work on the Saturday and I'd be home at 3 on the Sunday. Dh is fine with this, he knows that I'd be gutted if I didn't see my sister before she goes.
So this morning mil is asking when dh has a day off this week so I say Sunday but I won't be here. And she pulls a funny face and says in a kind of disapproving voice 'oh, poor dh he's been working non stop, he must be exhausted, he'll never get a sit down'
Now I'm wondering if I'm being selfish? Dh will be working like this for the next 6 months, my sister leaves in 2. Aibu for going?