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To be fuming with dh despite him apologising!

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m0therofdragons · 22/05/2013 14:04

Sorry for TMI but cannot possibly tell anyone in RL and need to vent! NC

So dh and I had sex and the next day I was sore (thought possible thrush) but next day I was more than sore and mentioned to dh. I said "you definitely used the latex free condoms didn't you" and he replied "oh no we'd run out" (even when I said it I expected the answer to be "of course darling")

I have a latex allergy hence the soreness and bleeding I'm now getting. He knows this but put sex above this. I cannot believe he'd do this - he's seen how my hands get if I wear rubber gloves so did he really think I wouldn't notice down below?

He has apologised and learned his lesson as he now won't be getting any until I'm recovered. But I'm still Angry at him and feel like buying a feather pillow to put on his side of the bed and see how he likes it (yes, he's allergic to them) Grin

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hiddenhome · 22/05/2013 21:20

You need to grate some really hot chillies and put them in his underpants.

fabergeegg · 23/05/2013 01:35

You are owed an enormous box of chocolates and an escape weekend retreat to a top quality spa hotel. Not with him. With a girlfriend.

That was the shameful thing to do. I hope he's feeling very ashamed of him

m0therofdragons · 23/05/2013 14:55

He really didn't take my allergy seriously and basically thought it was like his allergy to cats - he gets a bit sneezy but we still have a cat. I have shown him the details and how each reaction I get is worse than before and can end up with needing an epi pen. He NOW takes it seriously.

Just checked and old pack isn't in date - ran out February. Well, if I'm pregnant he'll be getting up to deal with nighttime crying etc!

He's now bought some latex free ones... optimistic! Grin

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tanfastic · 23/05/2013 15:01

Chop some chillies, don't wash your hands and give him a wank.

Livid I'd be Angry

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