I have been with my partner for 8 years and we are incredibly lucky to have two beautiful children. He is the most wonderful father, great with practical stuff and so so helpful with everything at home. He also works incredibly hard for our family. I love him so much but something is missing...
I feel terribly selfish but things are just not good between us emotionally and have not been for a long time and he has always struggled to share his feelings or really talk with me about mine.
He hasn't told me that he loves me since 2008 and just can't deal with me ever being upset.
Also a friend of our has been doing some graphic design work for our business and has been very rude about me to him calling me a stupid bitch, a pathetic mother and has sent me lots of very rude texts. My partner has shown no anger towards this person and simply says its just banter but it hurts so much that he is so indifferent about it.
A few weeks ago I found some messages on his phone, not through snooping, I was doing some email work for his business. They were to a woman who I have always felt uncomfortable about saying how much he misses her still. I eventually said that I felt hurt and he just laughed and said I was being ridiculous, I honestly don't think anything has happened between them it was just upsetting that he would not ever say that to me.
Sorry for going on, i don't feel like i've explained very well but thought you'd all be bored by now... thank you for reading to the end
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or just a selfish cow ...to feel hurt and sad by my partners behaviour
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hatbobble · 14/05/2013 20:24
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