Interesting to read so many replies from various perspectives.
To whoever asked what happened to him - he developed a really severe case of something called rhabdomyolysis and almost died, been in hospital for a week, and now they have his kidneys sorted he can get out, but he is still in agony. They did say that the opioids were a second choice pain killer - but he first choice was NSAIDs which are nephrotoxic, so he can't have those because of the kidney issues around rhabdo!
Thistle - I appreciate the nurses have a DoC, however, having been told lunchtime, and we didn't finally leave until 9.45pm, that's a huge amount of time to just check two drugs. Two drugs which he has been taking, and the same nurses have been giving to him, all week without batting an eyelid! Given that he was told he would be leaving at lunchtime, and the after school club runs until 6pm, I think it's quite reasonable to envisage I wouldn't have needed to make alternative arrangements. And as I said, when I asked at 4pm, I was reassured I would be out of there in plenty time to collect my son, so again, at no point was I given any clue that would not be the case. I am unfortunately unable to see the future and thankfully have not had to deal with being discharged from a ward before, so I didn't really think it could possibly take until 9.45 at night when they said it would definitely be lunchtime!
Thanks for the tip about the all bran - never even entered my head that would cause an issue - bought him lactulose today, so hopefully it won't be an issue. Pharmacist told me to start giving him it now before there is an issue!!!
Have just checked all the stuff and on the discharge summary the dr has written sick note issued, however has not actually given us a sick note. Deep joy, if we hadn't been so shattered by the time we left I'd have checked that, so off to the GP on Tuesday morning to try and get one from them!!!
My main issue is the lack of communication. Whenever I asked what the problem was, I got fobbed off with some sort of muttered answer which seemed to change each time I asked. If they had just said there was an issue and it would take time to sort out, I could live with that, but they didn't, and as a consequence it caused us a lot of stress and hassle!