or do you just apologise for a quiet life.

[AgroomOfOnesOwn]

A few of us started up a volunteer run project. We fell quite naturally into roles but the leader seemed to find it hard to relinquish control. At a meeting she got quite drunk picked a fight and then when hung over the next day sent me some pretty aggressive emails.

Not sure what the others were told but I was then taken off the email list, left off the projects and effectively dismissed.

This weekend as a favour I took a lot of photos. The 'leader' has got wind and wants to use them.

Do I ...
a) apologise for I know not for just being quite good at copy/web design
b) give her the photos
c) say nothing
d) tell her to shove it up her arse

I'm counting votes and listening.....

Who made the request? (as I asked earlier) If it was her, then at least she has the guts to be direct. Less good if it came indirectly, through one of the spineless minions in the group.

sorry, rest of the post should have read...
why on earth would you apologise?
I wouldn't engage with her at all.
If the photos are valuable to the project and you still care about it then give them to someone else.

C

If she asks again, ask her whether she remembers terminating your services.