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... Or am I being an effete citified wimp?

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Peevish · 07/05/2013 09:48

More a 'what would you have done?'

Am a Londoner recently transplanted to the countryside, and adoring being able to take long walks. At the weekend, I was almost home from a fifteen-mile walk, and the last field right of way I had to take to get back to the road was through a huge field which had livestock in it. As I got closer to the animals, I realised that these consisted of (a) cows with young calves, (b) about twenty very frisky bullocks which started running in my direction when they saw me and finally, (c) a bull getting to his feet. I hesitated, and kept going through the field for a bit, trying to keep close to the hedge (which was all wire and too high to get over) but ended up getting back over the stile and retracing my steps, although because of the terrain, it ended up adding a couple of miles to my route home. I was pretty tired by then, and a bit cross with myself.

Rural types, was I being unreasonably wimpy or sensibly cautious? I grew up in dairy country, but not UK, so not used to walking through fields on rights of way and dealing with livestock in that way. I had earlier walked through a field with a bull and grown cows in it. Do you avoid bulls/ cows with calves/ herds of bullocks who seem to be responding to your appearance, or any combination of the above?

No dog involved, incidentally, just one law-abiding person with an OS map.

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Viviennemary · 07/05/2013 12:29

I now live in a semi-rural area and got laughed at for being terrified of some sheep. Because I'm a townie at heart. Cows are dangerous beasts especially when with calves.

LadyBigtoes · 07/05/2013 12:31

I am really scared of cows and would be extremely cautious, and I'd never go in a field with a bull in it. I've seen non-calving, apparently content, normal looking cows suddenly ram the farmer on his quad bike and try to tip it over. I've also had to climb over an electric fence when charged by bullocks.

Disclaimer though - I definitely am an effete city type, but still. If you're scared, you don't have to go there. I get extremely annoyed by hardy countryside types tut-tutting at me for being worried.

Jestrin · 07/05/2013 13:25

I think you did the right thing too. If just cows in there I would have carried on but the mix of bulls and calves wouldn't be worth the risk!

Peevish · 07/05/2013 13:52

Thanks, all. I really did think at least one person would come on and call me a city wimp! Agreed, too, it's an odd combination of beasts to put out together in a field, albeit a huge one. I originally thought the cows and bullocks were separated off from one another by electric wire, but they weren't. I have also seen sheep and horses sharing the field with cattle on other occasions....

I wouldn't have thought twice about turning back, but I knew I was going to have to go miles out of my way to get back on the road without going through the field, when I was pretty tired already. That's why I wondered whether I was being a bit over-cautious.

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PetiteRaleuse · 07/05/2013 15:37

No, nothing at all to do with being a city wimp :o

Cows are bigger than us and can do a lot of damage. I wouldn't have walked into that field. I'm even carful walking through a field of horses after a very scary experience once (they were convinced I was bringing them food. I wasn't)

LRDtheFeministDragon · 07/05/2013 17:30

Might it have been a horned cow rather than a bull? Unless obviously you saw swinging nadgers, of course ... just seems more likely.

But yeah ... I would have avoided this. My ex was a dairy farmer and his family were a real eye-opener for me in terms of what attitudes some farmers had to 'right of way' (and I grew up in the sticks). He would have completely fine with putting a load of pissed-off cows in a field with a path through, and it would not have occurred to him that if there was a right of way, someone might think the animals were safe to walk past.

WafflyVersatile · 07/05/2013 17:39

cows kill more people than sharks.

Or more people in the UK are killed by cows than any other animal.

Or cows kill more people than I've hot dinners. summat like that.

[statistics]

MaxPepsi · 07/05/2013 17:43

I'm not keen on walking through fields that contain any of the following:

Cows
Horses
Geese

I've been 'chased' by all three at different times in my life and although I'm a townie I'm less than half a mile from farms so more than used to it.
I've been known to run away rather than walk through a field. I have to hand over the dog lead too to anyone DH

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 07/05/2013 17:49

I avoid fields with any livestock in them, and I'm a rural type. No fun in having a pony bite your arse as you try to scramble over a gate, let me tell you.

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