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AIBU and need to get a grip on myself?

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SoleSource · 06/05/2013 15:56

I am single Mum' aged 39, very overweight. DS is 14, blind Autistic, naughy' behavioural issues. The few friend's i have i rarely see and the have their.own problems.

I am always alone, no.job, on benefits, house is a shitty mess, no motivation to clean.

Mu DS spends all his time at home in bed.
I feel really alone and low.

I am better off than some i this wotld. Maybe i'm judt a fat, slob.

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magimedi · 06/05/2013 19:55

Wish I was closer to you, Sole. I'd come round & give you a hand.

You sound like a great person. It takes great courage to post about your problems on an open forum, and I really admire you for that.

Sadly, I'm a long way away from you, but if there is anything I can do to help in any way, just post or pm.

I've so enjoyed some of your more lighthearted posts on other threads.

Wine - 'cos it's time for that.

IvanaCake · 06/05/2013 21:16

Sole I am in Birmingham too Smile

I just got rid of my youngest to nursery for 2.5 days a week so I have time on my hands. I would gladly come and help you clean or take you out for cake. Genuine offer.

I'm a regular name changer but have been here for years Smile

MrsDeVere · 06/05/2013 21:23

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SoleSource · 07/05/2013 08:24

Hi

I am ok today, DS excited for school and i just had a lovely guy call me about some gym equipment.

I feel good,.back to my old self agzin

Going to tidy up and have czlled SW again.

I just need to be less harsh on mysellf

I'm going to keep a Carers diary in the Carer's section if allowed

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magimedi · 07/05/2013 11:35

Very pleased to hear that you are feeling better.

everlong · 07/05/2013 12:20

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JammyDodger1 · 07/05/2013 12:27

Aw Sole I am pleased to hear that this morning let us know how you get on today
Thanks

TantrumsAndBalloons · 07/05/2013 13:00

sole im glad you are feeling better.

Keep posting though, it might make you feel better to know that people care and understand.

Hope you hear from SW soon.

SoleSource · 07/05/2013 13:47

I do feel better today, thanl you all for your support xx

I'm cleaning

Don't faint!!

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