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To be angry at a nanny 'friend' who told me I should leave my job..........

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Mummyoftwoangels · 30/04/2013 14:39

just because I told her I didn't want to feed her youngest charge her bottle this morning?! She was 'busy' texting her boss!!

My reasoning being, I lost my own babies just over a year ago, and struggle at times with dealing with young babies! The children I look after are 3 and 6 so not babies!!

She said I should be able to help out others or I'm not doing my job properly! She knows the history of what I have been through, but insisted that I should think about changing my career

If I seriously thought I wasn't doing my job properly, I would leave! AIBU to be really angry, and sad at her criticism?!

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JulieMumsnet · 07/05/2013 22:32

Hi,

We understand that this is a very emotive thread.

We just wanted to remind you that, whilst we don't have any reason to think that the OP isn't genuine, please don't give any more of yourself, emotionally or otherwise, than you can afford to give.

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HelenMumsnet · 09/05/2013 17:46

Afternoon. Thanks for the many reports about this thread. As you know, we're always grateful for reports.

We do understand that the OP's situation is highly dramatic but, as we have no reason to conclude the OP is anything other than genuine, we do need to remind folks not to post (or hint in a post) that their credulity is being stretched here.

That's against the rules, as we hope you all know. If you do have any concerns, please do report them to us instead.

In the meantime, we are going to repeat what we posted earlier about thanking everyone for their support for the OP but also reminding everyone of our usual caveat never to give more of yourself, emotionally, to a thread than you think you can afford to spare.

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