I haven't read all of this because its just so upsetting to see people so lacking in compassion for those in need. I am a huge believer in people working and being able to support themselves but you never know what is round the corner, and when you may need help or support.
I have been one of those people who has had to use a food bank, after my wanker ex left us and refused to support me and our daughters, I was told I was not entitled to any benefits, I'm in France and its a different system here much harder to get help, and it is often a very long time in coming over 4 months in my case.
How can I explain to the self rigthteous pricks on here, Im not stupid or lazy, Im happy to work I dont and didnt want to have handouts but I was in a position where working was not possible for me and I wasnt able to return to the UK either for family support it was very very dark times.
When I was given the voucher for the food bank, I cried, not only with relief but at the absolute humiliation it was absolutely devestating to be be in such a horrible position, and hard to accept that I had come this low its a very bitter pill to swallow. I was however grateful to the people who had donated there were basic items in there but also some 'luxuries' little chocolate puddings and biscuits which my lovely girls enjoyed and made things seem that little bit better, it wasnt out fault we were in this position fortunately I think they were oblivious to most of it.
My life is now a lot better, money is still tight as it is for many families. whenever there is a collection for the food bank I always give and as well as practical items I put one or two luxury items. At some points in life we all need that little something that makes our life that little bit easier.
The irony is that wanker ex and 'christian' in laws brag to their friends about sponsoring children in other countries (a great thing to do) but did nothing to help their own children/grandchildren