I bumped into a mother from DS's year 6 class in town at the weekend. I don't really know her TBH, having only spoken to her a couple of times before. But we chatted about the weather for a minte or two and then she asked me if I'd had a letter home from school about DS doing the year 6 SATS? I told her yes, I did get one several weeks ago. She seemed unhappy at that she said but he didn't pass the test the teacher gave them to decide who'd be doing the level 6 SATS! I explained that the teacher had missed out two pages, and so when she remarked it, DS had passed. Then the other mother told me that her DS had got the best score in the class on that test.
After that, she started to say that other mothers in the school generally didn't parent as well as she did. That she was very committed to doing the best for her children and by way of example, she'd given up her high-flying career etc. At that point, I edged away.
AIBU to think that this is the epitome of competitive parenting that she not only remembers her own child's exact test results when they have done loads of tests since, but that she also knows my child's results?? And did she mean me when she talked about other people not doing their best for their children?
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lisson · 29/04/2013 14:04
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