when I haven't done something for him or tidied up after him.
He works full time. I work part time. We have three children. I do all the housework, food shopping, cooking, laundry, and do the bulk of the childcare, eg even when he is home at the weekend I will make the children's lunch, and bath them.
However I draw the line at being his skivvy. Unfortunately he is leaving more and more things to me such as leaving cups and wrappers everywhere, dirty clothes everywhere, and piles of his clean clothes next to his side of the bed where he won't put them away.
He keeps saying his latest line though, and I feel that he's trying to guilt trip me into doing everything for him and cleaning up after him. He said that we don't work as a team fairly recently when I hadn't tidied up some things he'd left out, and he said it wasn't a big deal for me to tidy them as it would only take seconds. And then he said it at the weekend when I told him I'd put a pile of clean, dried, ironed and folded (all done by me) laundry on the bed and he just needed to put his bits away.
I feel in a way like I need to try to please him all the time but sometimes I think there is no pleasing him at all.