My friend and I have a pretty good relationship butI find her hard work sometimes. She gets easily upset about things and I have a pretty blunt manner that I try to keep reined in around her, but sometimes stuff slips out.
Anyway, we were discussing an upcoming day outwith some mutual friends that I got stuck with hosting and, teasing, I told them I would demand fealty by way of baked goods. She responded, we got talking about cake, she mmentioned you couldmake cream puffs as long as you knew how to make puff pastry. Then I said its choux pastry needed in cream puffs, adding an expression to lether know I was just teasing.
She has since sent me a privprivate message telling me she is tired of me patronising her in regards to her baking.Thinking on it, I can recall a grand total of two occasions where I have said anything to her about her baking and I thought it was pretty innocuous. She has had very few problems making personal digs at me, regarding my inability to handle a drink, my uptightedness about sex and how I am 'weird' around children (I'm a nanny, I happen to like and get on well with children). I'm able to laugh it off, I can't see why she can't do the same.
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or is she being oversensitive?
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PrincessTeacake · 27/04/2013 01:20
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