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Was I being unreasonable to challenge parent parking on pavement next to lollipop lady?

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WhyParkThere · 26/04/2013 10:52

He thinks I was!

He is a local "celeb" and likes to get his picture in the paper for charity work and an ex professional footballer. There is a single yellow line with parking restrictions near the school crossing and he always parks his car there half on / half off the road, obstructing the pavement, road and the view of the crossing, he seems to think the rules don't apply to him.

Yesterday he was there early,sitting in his car.I've been wanting to challenging him on parking there for months but haven't had an opportunity, I couldn't stop myself - I knocked on his window and very calmly and politely said I lived just down the road and had noticed that he always parks there obstructing the crossing and did he think that was a safe thing to do? He went nuts - how dare I even approach him, he would continue to park where he wants when he wants and it was none of my business! I thanked him for showing me the kind of man he was and left.

On the way out of school I was intending to ignore him but he didn't want to leave it drop, as soon as he saw me he got out of his car and started shouting at me in front of everyone - he was standing in the road with his car door open blocking the traffic - he really lost it.

He didn't park there this morning though - his wife did the school run and parked legally for once.

No prizes for guessing what the main topic of conversation was in the yard this morning!

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WhyParkThere · 27/04/2013 19:59

Update

Message on my answerphone from the police - it seems his version of events is not the same as mine
that I hammered on his window (tapped gently)
frightened his young daughter (he was alone in the car)
Singled him out "because of who he is" (couldn't care less)
Didn't approch any other drivers parked there (he was the only car)

He seems to feel agreived that I had the audacity to speak to him and point out he was obstructing the pavement, ignorring the yellow line parking restriction and obstructing the crossing!

He's even more arrogant than I thought!! He's still trying to defend himself even though he was the one illegaly parked, and aggressivly shouting at me.

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PigletJohn · 27/04/2013 20:40

anyone willing to witness?

kim147 · 27/04/2013 21:01

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UnexpectedItemInShaggingArea · 27/04/2013 22:00

Blimy, what a knobber.

I'll be interested to know if he parks illegally on Monday!

PigletJohn · 27/04/2013 22:41

photo photo

youparklikeacnut.com

PatPig · 27/04/2013 22:56

what's his name????

WhyParkThere · 28/04/2013 09:44

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lurkedtoolong · 28/04/2013 10:00

If it's who I think it is he always had a reputation for being a bully and violent conduct (kicked a team mate in the mouth during training). Having cancer doesn't cure you of being a cunt.

Primrose123 · 28/04/2013 10:12

OP, if I have the right person (are you in South Wales?) then my DH met this man before he was famous. DH works in financial services, and met him to help him manage his huge earnings. DH says he seemed liked a nice person, but seemed to have a very low IQ (I'm being polite there). It sounds to me as if you asked him a polite question, he should have admitted he was in the wrong and moved the car, but he didn't have the intelligence to do that and just lost his temper instead.

I think you handled it very well. :)

BegoniaBampot · 28/04/2013 10:51

I googled and several possibilities came up. so now some innocent ex footballer might be getting the evil eye on Monday on the school run. If you going to be shy then don't give the wrong guy a bad name.

WhyParkThere · 28/04/2013 13:52

Yes I am in South Wales.

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CalamityJ · 28/04/2013 14:15

I know him from his reputation as a footballer & he had a vicious temper then . Well done for having the guts to stand up to him. I know a few ex footballers & blimey are they entitled. Act like complete knobbers. Also don't think rules apply to them in this case drink driving rules

I am constantly amazed that anyone still thinks it's OK to park inconsiderately outside schools. When my DD is at school you can be sure I'll get myself on the PTA just to wage a campaign!

WishIdbeenatigermum · 28/04/2013 18:19

You've majorly lost the high ground op by naming him, however obliquely. If he finds out and it can be turned into a she shouted at me and posted about me on Mumsnet...
I'd ask for the identifying posts to be deleted.

YoniRaver · 28/04/2013 18:38

I dont see why she should not name him,

TheUnsinkableTitanic · 28/04/2013 18:48

I hope you don't mind, but i have reported the messages that give out initials and googleable (is that a word lol) info

but well done you - YANBU

I hope he got a fright when the police came a knocking :)

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