AIBU to feel queasy about DD's video chats with her dad?

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Thinking I might be, but can't help it.

DD and I are visiting family at the moment. She talks to her dad on Skype every night.

Her dad and I separated over two years ago when I discovered he'd been using Adultwork to do webcam chats and other things.

Every time DD now talks to him via video chat, I wonder if this is the view the escorts had of him (if indeed they could see him - does anyone know if this is the case on Adultwork?). If I told him how weird I find it that he uses the same mode of contact to talk to his DD as he used in order to see naked women, he would say I'm overreacting.

I'm not going to stop DD talking to her dad obviously, it's just making me feel weird.

I speak to all my family in the states by Skype every week. YABU

Hrmm... I dunno, when I see a whole bunch of people telling you you are unreasonable, when they don't know the whole story, I think you should take your own counsel on this one. You have the bigger picture.

Yeah, I don't think I'd have any issues talking to someone entirely different on Skype.

Of course I won't say anything to exH - there is no need and no point.

Interesting to learn more about how Adultwork works. Can the perv customer choose whether or not they want to be seen?

Yes they will ask if the girl wants to view them then the girl has to click on 'two way' chat to accept. It can also be done through Skype! However on adult work it is usually done grouch the software supplied.

Through - not grouch!

I found skype incredibly intrusive actually, but my ex was abusive.

Anyway, being Father of the Year, he's only bothered a couple if times since then.

Its only a few minutes, try to work through it. I do understand your unease though.