Jimjams,
I have noticed on other threads your habit of using unnamed researchers, specialists and so on to back up what are essentially (from the point of view of what constitutes actual evidence) your own opinions. This really grates on me. But I will admit, I didn't read all of this thread, so let me check:
"I get slightly fed up being told what to do by people who know absolutely nothing about autism (to the point where they don't even know what it is) & am happy with the decisions we made after reading the research (yes can understand it cheers), attending (& presenting) at international autism conferences & talking to researchers about their current research. With a quick chat with ds1's paed & neurologist along the way. I think the people who think they know better are whack jobs tbh."
There you are chatting happily with your unnamed researchers and the "paed" and neurologist.
" Because the 'pro-vaxxers' seem to lack an understanding that there are grey areas seeker. Something that senior doctors incidentally seem very aware of (junior ones not so much). If you inhabit a grey area no-one can tell you which is the 'correct' decision for your child. "
Those "senior doctors" at it again, anonymously. I those junior doctors would be just devastated to hear you talk about them (I remember this disdain from another thread too).
" Ds1's doctors have told us to wait 10-20 years and we'll get a much more accurate answer (like I said, hopefully in time for ds2 and ds3's children if they have any)."
Hopefully by that point they'll decide to share with with the rest of us too?
"at the moment they are not discussed at all (and currently in the UK it is very difficult to follow her advice on how to vaccinate whilst reducing the risk from the vaccination - even when your doctor agrees with you incidentally - btdtgtts)"
That handy unnamed doctor called in again, validating your position.
" Your way of thinking sounds the same as mine (and my old GP's and ds1's current paed and neurologists - I have been lucky). You're what I call a thinking doctor (I know it sounds patronising but amongst the good we have had some bad experiences.."
Phew, at least you admit some doctors fail to anonymously back you up! You, patronising? Never.
"which is why I'm listening to an immunologist who is an expert in my son's condition and his own doctors. I'm always amazed that people on here think they know better, when most of them don't even know what autism is, let alone its many causes.."
Well, blow me down it's those unnamed "expert immunologist" and doctors backing you up, again. Unnamed but absolutely on team jimjams.
"It's what everyone who knows what they're talking about (from researchers to consultants) have told me. It's honest. So we make best guesses with the information available."
Here they are again, the people who know what they're talking about, but only only sharing it with you, not the rest of the scientific community? What not?
"Although obviously I have spoken to his paeds and neurologist & GP."
"I was told by a lawyer that EU law makes it impossible to introduce a compulsory vaccination programme (although you could have something like the Australian system). "
Yay! An anonymous lawyer, well it does at least make a change.
"I'm inclined to listen more to immunologists rather than epidemiologists. And of course the parents of children I know who had MMR reactions that put them into ICU and following that regressed, but I'm not allowed to mention them on here. I expect the immunologists might be interested in them though........"
Which is where I came in. This isn't a personal attack, by the way, I am merely pointing out that you really do this all the time. It is not what is called providing evidence.
Cheers.