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to ask if the Nexplanon contraceptive implant turned anyone else crazy?

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nexplanonpsycho · 24/04/2013 16:48

I am getting it out soon and I hope that my mood will improve. It has honestly turned me into a psycho. I don't know why I have left it so long - I guess I was just wondering if things would settle down - but it's been six months now and I am a tearful, vile tempered horror who has horrific mood swings - I promise, I was not like that before in case anyone is wondering that.

I am surprised my DH has not divorced me. I burst into tears at the slightest provocation and go from being in a perfectly ok mood to absolutely furious and raging over something really small. I am frightening myself. I don't think my DH is convinced it's the implant, I think he thinks I have PND but I was absolutely fine when I got the thing put in and noticed immediately a difference, I was suddenly snapping at our children and crying all the time. It seems to be getting worse, too. Yesterday I was sitting with my DH and two DCs and feeling so low, I lay down on the sofa and covered myself with a blanket and refused to move. Actually refused, just lay crying under the blanket. What a freak. I am ashamed of myself and feel so useless and like the shittest mother and wife in the world. I need to hear other people's stories of returning to normal after getting the implant out, if they have any?

Thanks for reading.

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MrsMook · 17/03/2015 07:25

I get on well with it and am on my 3rd. My first one was pre-DCs, and I had a 6 month trial on Cerazette as that was likely to indicate how I would react to the implant. My only gripe is that it's doubly effective as I have no libido on it.

I've heard of plenty of complaints about its effects on mood, the same as any other hormonal contraceptive.

I got on well with Microgynon pr

cleanmyhouse · 17/03/2015 07:35

Any hormonal contraceptive makes me mental/fat/spotty/angry/tearful.

notsolovely · 17/03/2015 07:42

This happened to me. Doctor thought I may have pnd, further discussions showed it was probably the implant. I went to an appointment to have it removed, sat and waited an hour to be then told they were running so far behind I would have to come back another day. I was so desperate to have it removed I threatened to cut it out if they didn't take it out there and then. I am not usually that way out but I was desperate to get it out. Within a few days I noticed a massive difference. Am fine now. Dh has had the snip, so not on anything anymore. Hope it gets better when they take it out. X

mousmous · 17/03/2015 07:45

report your side effects to the mhra yellow card scheme.
in theory your dr/nurse is supposed to do it if you tell them of side effects, but I've never met one who does...

Mamabear14 · 17/03/2015 07:55

I had it and bled continuously and turned into a crazy lady. I ended up on the pill aswell as it to try and stop bleeding which was just ridiculous. After 6 months of bleeding I begged my doctor to take it out and he took pity on me. Within days the bleeding had stopped and I was back to my normal, only half crazy self. Never again.

DinoRAUR · 17/03/2015 08:14

Yes, it was a nightmare! I begged the doctor to take it out but they wouldn't give me an appointment until a month away, instead they gave me the pill to reduce the hormones. It didn't work, and I was so desperate to take it out I was going to do it myself.

Anyway, went to a late night walk in clinic for sexual health and told them what it was going on, and that if they didn't take it out I would do if myself at home. They took it out straight away, and the next day I was back to normal.

Horrible, horrible experience.

Filisicia · 17/03/2015 08:42

I had one put in after a termination. The worst thing at the worst time. Like earlier people have said - I bled so much the whole time thinking it was to do with the termination, was absolutely crazy/ depressed/ unhinged. Had to beg for removal ( I too was ready to cut it out myself) I cot told off for not being patient as they are expensive and that "all these young girls want them removed but we make them wait" I'm late 30's so got it out, but imaging if you were doing your exams or starting a new job, or for that matter just had a baby...!!!

CundtBake · 17/03/2015 09:00

Me. I was fat, spotty, bloody and evil. It was hell on earth. I don't know anyone personally who hasn't had an awful time with it. I told the doctors I would cut it out myself if they didn't. They can be hesitant to remove it because it's expensive

bennybenbear · 17/03/2015 09:48

Yes I had exact same problem. I persevered with it far longer than I should have. I got pregnant not long after I had it out (planned) but I was soooo much better after having it removed. It made me really depressed as I was so upset with my irrational behaviour. Never again!

FickleByNurture · 17/03/2015 10:52

I had implanon. I bled 25 on, 3 off for 14 months before I got fed up and demanded it was removed. I gained weight, was a ranty miserable hormonal mess, with teenage acne and greasy hair.

Cerazette does something very similar and I can't have the combined pill. The merina coil works the best for me I've found. My periods are now relatively light although I'm still a fat slightly ragey Fickle.

AJae · 13/04/2016 08:02

I know that no one has posted on this thread in years, but I have been dealing with the backlash of this drug and I need to write it down no matter how crazy it is. So hear it goes...
I got on Nexplanon in April 2013 because I was tired of the pill and my doctor recommended it. Soon after I started to feel different and then one day out of the each month I felt emotionally crazy. Like I couldn't control myself. Then it went away the next day so I ignored it. Starting in November 2013 I started having stomach queasiness (that lasted for 1 1/2 years) and my eyes feeling tired. Month 3, January 2014, my life was hectic and I ignored the off feeling I had and the daily fatigue I was having. February is when everything went bad. I was in the 2nd month of school when, out of no where, this debilitating migraine hits. As a side note I use to get migraines freshman year of high school but they went away. The migraine was one of the worse I have ever had but little did I know that was just the beginning of it. Also that is when my eyesight changed. My eyes could not process light properly and everything was speckled. The next day came and nothing had changed. I was just trying to go from one day to the next. Fighting each new wave of the never ending migraine. A week has now gone by and I am an emotion wreck, in constant pain and my sense of self is fading. I tell my parents and continue to try every home remedy. (I really don't like to get medicine from doctors and to truly admit when things are really bad). Week two my now ex get hospitalized with pancreatitis. His family is not helpful so have to take up all of the Doctor and house duties to make sure he gets better. That takes 15 days. Once he gets better I broke down to my parents and they made the first general doctor appointment for me to get anything to make this migraine go away. At this point I started to develop the beginning stages of my next group of symptoms. I was having a harder time talking. The words would be there but I couldn't spot them out. I also felt stupid. I would forget actions, like how to do easy things which then would require me to spend way to much time re-remembering how to accomplish the task. On top of that my balance and equilibrium was very off.

So now 27 days after the initial migraine the doctor gives me medicine that is not directly for migraines and gives me a refeal for a neurologist. The medicine does next to nothing. My daily caffeine and tricks were helping more than them.
I was able to get in with the neurologist at day 47. At this point I was in my own h*ll. My family couldn't figure out what was wrong and I was trying to keep myself together as much a possible. When I get to the doctors I am praying this man can give me anything to ease this pain and everything else. When he comes into the patient room to meet me the first words he says is, "Hello, what can I do to help you today?" I felt like a got thrown a life saver and mixed with my raging emotions, I begin to cry. I told him everything and the two things he did was have me get testing done, and gave me medicine to take, 3 types. Due to a problem, I didn't receive my medicine till day 51. For the first time I had some reprieve from the mind numbing pain. The next week I was exhausted but the migraine was pushed down; however, I could still feel it underneath. Now that, with heavy medication, one problem was handle I realized the extent of the other ones. Even though I was doing good in school, God only know how I pulled that off, all my other symptoms were getting worse. I was have a harder time speaking, which really affected me in class. My vision had completely changed. I was seeing dots and starts and black spots. I couldn't wear my contacts because my eyes could handle it. It hurt to focus and light killed my eyes. My equilibrium was bad. I would use walls to get around. And during al this time I was trying my best to act normal. Even though I it was the scariest time of my life.

I had mri and cat scans with no real findings. I had a ultrasound and still nothing to explain this. I went back to the neurologist with my parents, and we talked about options and my next path. I asked him if my birth control or allergy shots could have done them and he told me no, I had it in too long for it to be it. So we pushed that thought out of our minds. Then he told me that this all could be from anxiety and depression!! I couldn't believe it!! He believes this to be the case because I started crying when I first meet him!! IF anyone was dealing with these crazy symptoms they would have some anxiety!! I calming told him that during the last months I have been evaluating myself to see if maybe different foods, areas, smells make it worse or if any time of day or month. And of course, just because I felt crazy for everything I was going through, I evaluated myself. And no matter if it was a boring day or a bad one the symptoms didn't respond accordingly. My parents, understanding that these things that were happening to me were not caused from anxiety but instead they were a symptom of there own, encouraged me to find the answer.

Another month has pasted and we didn't know where to turn. It is harder for my family and friend to understand and be really supportive because I have no positive test result to give them even though I have giving a lot of blood to find some sort of answer. My neurologist had me stop taking the medication and switched me to Topamax, which I have taken before, because that medication over time can damage the body. I started to get this horrible burning, hot, electric pain on the top of my foot. When it happened I couldn't walk til it stopped. Then I would get these weird hot red patches on my legs. They would only last a few minutes and they didn't hurt but it was really random. After it happened 7 times I took pictures and told my mom. She didn't know how to believe me, and I can completely understand after everything I have told them, but when we were laying outside legs up, a big red patch appeared. My mom was in shock. It was the first physical sign that I am telling the truth. That I was not bat shit crazy.

Two days later I was riding the train home when the pain in my foot got so bad my mom said to do to the hospital. Long story short, after many tests everything came back mostly normal. But when this specialty doctor came in to tell give me my results and to tell me I was having an allergic reaction to the Topamax, she did the one thing my neurologist never did, she gave me a physical examination. Went she looked into my eyes she told me I have a bad Nystagmus and to go to a neuropharmacologist. I have had no past issues with my eyes except them not being 20/20. This was amazing news!!!! Another positive, another path to finding out what is wrong. And proof that I am not batshit crazy!

During the two weeks it takes to see the doctor my parent have made the most important discovery, that everything that has happened to me could be from my birth control. My perents are amazing. And they have been asking anyone of caliber there opinion of what is wrong with me and that is how my dad found out about the bad reviews for the birth control. My mom found all the posts on medical and blog websites.

At this point, I have given 15+ vials of blood, countless Mir and cat scans, I had a needle in my spine to check spinal fluid, ultrasound, and more. With that I still had of all of the symptoms and they were still getting worse, I was now unable to write properly. It took to much for my brain to hear the teacher, process it, and write it down. It was horrible! I was the top of my class and I couldn't answer questions without stumbling over my words or not be able to say it at all! I was still insanely hormonal, nauseous, dizzy, lightheaded, and the best one was my eye sight. Between the dots, black spots, reflective light off of everything staying in my eyes, and what I call pixelated vision all the time and the add on of other crazy things, I couldn't drive at times. During all of this, all the months of not knowing, I truly thought There was a chance I was going to Die and then they would figure out what was wrong.

Going back, my parents sat me down on the couch and told me they think they figured out what was wrong. I will be honest, I didn't want to hear it. I had little hope of finding answer and I didn't want to watch my parents' idea get tested and fail because it hurt to much to watch. But then my dad said it is my birth control because of what this pharmacist said and then they both got a little teary eyed. My mom then told me she did some digging and found posts on medical and blog websites. She told me that women were saying they had a lot of the symptoms I was. How I couldn't wear my contacts, the migraines, the speech issues. I was stunned, speechless. I think I asked a few questions and I then started to cry. I couldn't stop. I felt sane for the first time in a year and a half. It was not in my head it was this horrible birth control.
After my first bout of crying, I told them I don't care what the doctors says I am getting this taken out tomorrow. I called the next day and told them it was an emergency and was in the office that day. The nurse practitioner didn't really believe all of what I was saying but I was so adamit about getting it removed she real didn't have a choice. She told me that if this really is the cause that it should take 3-7 days for me to feel a slight difference and a few months to be back to normal. I made a follow out appointment 2 weeks after.
Day 4 I started to notice I slightly clearer head. And slowly I started to feel like myself again. I didn't full realize how far gone I was.

The next week I had that appointment with the eye doctor. Even though I thought I found the answer, I figured it couldn't hurt to see her. She gave me a bunch of tests I never past with flying color on any of them but the results where not bad. She told me my optic nerve is good. And my nystagmus is down from the hospital visit. I told her about the birth control and she said then all my eye issues continue to get better.

I was so happy.

I continued to improve for two months, everything was still there but mild. And then suddenly everything spiked back up to mad symptom levels. A day later I spotted alittle and it was like a damn broke so all my symptoms went back to mild again. It was very weird.

On October 9 2014, my body tries to ovulate for the first time. That resulted in same day appendectomy and ovarian cyst drained.
My body didn't know how to handle it's own sexual hormones, that is caused my appendix to be removed.

My hope for the better was fading.

At a follow up my gynecologist was taking notes of my entire story and wanted to wait to see how I feel the next month.

When I spotted again, the symptom reaction was the same and during the month the would fluctuate of mild to strong was increasing. I felt helpless. I thought things were getting worked out.

The next follow up with the gynecologist I told him that it feels like my body is reacting to my own hormones the same way it did to the birth control. he told me that my body needs time to adjust and had me start on Nuva Ring. It is a lower dose of hormone than my body and it should help given time.

1 1/2 years later and I am better except for my vision and mood swings. I am still on a path to make myself better.

I am not a doctor but I wouldn't wish anyone to go through what I have. So Please, if you get on any medicine and you don't feel right or you get one of the side effects, get off of it immediately!! You don't know the long term problems it could give you!!!

Thank you if you read it all. I wrote this at night so sorry if the grammar is bad.

Alyssa

scaevola · 13/04/2016 08:08

The reason this thread has languished without further posts is because it appeared in AIBU.

There is a much longer and ongoing support thread in the topic:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/family_planning/1282683-Nexplanon-implant-thing-how-I-regret-that

CoraPirbright · 13/04/2016 08:21

No experience of the implant but a progesterone heavy pill turned me into a paranoid, tearful, furious wreck! I steer clear of those things now! Good luck with getting it removed - I am sure you will see a quick improvement.

borntobequiet · 13/04/2016 08:25

Anyone suffering these sort of symptoms is very probably progesterone intolerant and certainly shouldn't be using progesterone based contraception.
Google "progesterone intolerance" and visit John Studd's website for good info.
It's horrendous that so many women are suffering because of widespread ignorance about this.
BTW this intolerance is probably a major factor in severe PMT/PMDD/PND. I write as someone who suffered all this undiagnosed for many years and only found out about it when a younger relative had similar symptoms and it was decided something had to be done about it.

WhatsGoingOnEh · 13/04/2016 08:25

Is the implant a mixed contraceptive with oestrogen and progesterone? There was a brilliant article in the Telegraph last Sunday about progesterone and how it causes PMT.

Some women are v v v sensitive to progesterone. I went INSANE on the pill! I know I'd be a psycho on the implant.

Just have it out and get the non-hormonal coil.

WhatsGoingOnEh · 13/04/2016 08:26

Sorry, cross posted!

BillBrysonsBeard · 13/04/2016 08:31

The pill did the same thing to me, add paranoia and anxiety in there too... The effects stopped days after stopping the pills. I had no sex drive on them either so I turned into a monster for no benefit! Condoms for us now. Hope you return to your normal self soon and find something else that works.

NikkiLee94 · 27/04/2016 16:10

I know this post is now 3 years old but I have had my implant in for a year and 4 months and I'm convinced it is what's making me crazy. My fiancé, friends, co-workers, all notice how unhappy, bi-polar, sensitive I've become and so have I. I'm so sick of feeling sad randomly, being angry at the littlest things, crying over every little thing... I have an appointment with my OB today actually to have a consultation about getting it removed. Did you ever get yours removed? Did you notice a difference?

NikkiLee94 · 27/04/2016 16:13

I have also noticed I developed anxiety which I have never thought of or experienced before. It's the weirdest thing. I also have always still bled every cycle and gained weight.

AJae · 27/04/2016 17:04

Honestly if you feel this way already and your quality of life has gone down, you should remove it. There is always other methods that will work for you!

PresidentCJCregg · 27/04/2016 17:08

For the first 4-6 months I had moments where I genuinely thought I might be developing some sort of mental illness.

Then it passed and I got no periods for the next 2.5 years, which was an amazing trade off!!

Now I need to get it taken out, and I'll NEVER do it again.

NikkiLee94 · 27/04/2016 17:53

Yeah I'm definitely set on removing it this time. Last time months ago I had saw my doctor to talk about getting it out and she tried to put me on estrogen patches saying sometimes it can mess up the estrogen and testosterone levels and thought my estrogen might be low ( high I would think?) without testing me for it but they didn't work. This time, I'm writing down all that I feel has changed with me and taking it with me. Yes I have found this to be the MOST EFFECTIVE since I don't have to remember to take it and I haven't wound up pregnant, but I'd rather take the risk than feel this way. I don't think I want to be on any pill, implant or IUD if it has hormones. And I know there are some that are non-hormonal but I heard those can be pretty dangerous. Finance has even offered to wear condoms from now on if I take this thing out. We'll see how things go after my appointment today. Hopefully she agrees with me and makes me an appointment to get it removed. Has anyone gotten it removed and felt like they went back to normal? If so, how long did it take?

Fionajsd · 27/04/2016 17:56

I bled non stop for 5 months after having this in, worst thing I ever did getting it put it!

calmandcussing · 27/04/2016 17:58

Yes! It made me very moody & argumentative. And I didn't especially want sex either, so it seemed pointless. I remember not being able to recognize my, then, partner & Judy feeling away with the faries.

I went to the dctr's & they told me to 'give it time', I told them to think again & take the damn thing out, quickly. They refused, so I told them I would attempt to take it out myself as I could not carry on living like that. One of the nurses told me it was 'in your head'. No s__t, Sherlock, now get it out!!

My the next morning, I felt like me again & couldn't apologise to my partner enough. He said I just 'looked' different, not all there.

finova · 27/04/2016 18:01

Fine on cilest and cerezette.
Tearful on microgynon.
Nightmare on Nexplanon. Tearful. Very short tempered. Mood swings. Hideous. Didn't settle down after 6 months. Never again.