We have a 5 bed house and 5 preeteen/teen kids.
We both work full time. I took 3 days off, he took none. He gets lots of holiday, I get the minimum.
I packed up nearly 200 boxes on my own, I unpacked nearly 200 boxes on my own. I cleaned the house with the help from the kids. The kids packed and unpacked their own rooms.
I wanted to ship the kids to family , he wanted them to stay to feel involved. I then entertained them and got them involved whilst he stayed at the other house without them.
I organised the phone, broadband, the washing machine repair man (when it broke after the move), the sky man, the takeaway on the day of the move and the shopping once we moved in.
He helped with the big furniture, assembled beds and a wardrobe.
We moved the boxes and furniture between us with the help of family and friends.
So after chasing my tail from the early hours to the late hours for many many days, he critisises me last night for not giving him enough input into where everything has gone in the new house. He says he feels left out, but he has not volunteered to unpack a single box or chosen to be here instead of at work.