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To think work should not be hassling me on maternity leave?

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Lambzig · 18/04/2013 13:56

My line manager left just after I went on maternity leave and I don't know my new line manager very well yet.

I am six months into my maternity leave and plan to go back sept when I hope to get a nursery place. I have told work this.

My line manager keeps calling me asking if I have an exact date yet. I keep telling him I will know soon ( my nursery works on three months notice and i am likely to get a school leavers place) and will let him know as soon as I do. He is now saying he needs a date by the end of the week and although he hasn't said clearly, I think there I a veiled threat about losing my job. I have stated to him that our maternity policy says we have to let work know 8 weeks before returning, but I will try and do it before then, but he is not backing off despite me being quite assertive back on this.

Not that it should matter, but I am quite senior at director level. It is a FTSE 350 company, so should I talk to HR (don't want to be a troublemaker), tell him to back off myself and risk a bad start to our working relationship or give him a date and then change it as needed? So depressing.

OP posts:
TheHoptimist · 24/01/2022 18:08

@poddleDoodle

he has no right to demand this, yanbu
I think that 8 years later it is sorted
MichelleScarn · 24/01/2022 18:13

Another 🧟‍♀️ gahh!!

Hawkins001 · 24/01/2022 18:26

@Lambzig

Oscar, that is definitely a cautionary tale. Hmmm, perhaps in writing is best.
Always best to have a paper trail, with hr, and all the best and positivity op
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