To judge a man on his sex choices.

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Just back from a date.
nice enough chap, would have seen him again if it wasnt for the fact that he confessed to the following

• when he was 24 ( hes now 30) he drove 4 hours to meet a 66 year old woman at her house, at 1am. where she answered the door in a corset... and then even though she was ' all dry' he had sex with her as he thought he might as well

• when he was 27 he met up with a nana, who had a 71 year old husband but liked younger men on skype..... and had sex with her.

• generally just seemed to have the attitude and said he would get it where he could.

he wants to see me again, he kept trying to come back to mine, i said no. ive now said no more dates.

Ive not judged harshly, i know i havent. it would be pretty crap of me to go there, thats what i think

am i wrong to judge

Ah yes, I remember! The wonderful cock shots...

Honestly, I've been on more OD dates than most, but have actually met a blinding bloke, normal, genuine, has lots of male and female mates, works, has a home, is stable and wonderful. They exist, but only just...

There really are some cranks out there

twentythirteen - since wednesdays date consisted of a drunk man who wanted to stick me in a vac bed for the second date, and told me this to my face, id think i might win that prize already.

brain bleach in the form of cheesy mash is in action.

and a resignation from all dating sites.

because i am worth so much more than this.

lesmis - nana, as in somebodys Nana, granny, whatever. and no, i dont want to see him again. ive told him that, he seems to not be getting the message even though im not replying....

Wow op, that's a string of bad luck. It certainly sounds like dating cites are best avoided for the time being. You can't control him trying to contact you, but as you say you can avoid responding. What is a vac bed?

What's wrong with him having sex with old people? Better than with under 16s...

It's not his 'preference' as such, I think it's more his stance on freely admitting and speaking about such things on a first date

Erm. How old is he now and how old are you? Are you a nana?

I think if you took the womans age out of the equation, the fact that he lurks around on skype looking for people to scuttle! And is prepared to travel long distances in the middle of the night to shag a stranger! Are disturbing enough as it is

no. im not a nana. im 4 years older than him....

If he's willing to tell you this on a first date then what he's keeping back must be terrifying. Glad you got out of there OP

thats what i thought......