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To think I shall stop show my kindness to unknown people altogether!

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whosthis · 08/04/2013 15:13

A guy came to my door showing a card saying he's representing a charity to raise fund helping people out from prison rehabilitate.

I already stopped giving random people in the street or coming to my doorway no matter they say who they represent. Instead, I always believe donation going to the charities directly by online transfer is far more reliable.

But this time, this guy claimed he's from an unusual type of charity which I do think it's crucial (shouldn't those who made mistakes before gey a second chance?) to the humanity and the society.

He showed me various stuff in his basket, coming across a pair of oven gloves with retail price marked there. He says I could get a discount of two pounds.

I didn't I really need anything immediately for my place, especially when we are fairly tight to pay mortgage during M leave and later on the childcare... But I so felt I had to support this guy. In the end, I paid £7.99 for a pack of three microfibre of multiple purpose, which i thought I do need in shor term. And the printed price for the oven gloves made me trust he's honest.

Not difficult to guess from here, right? After he left, I check the price of the same product on Amazon - £2.49 with free shipping!

It's really not about money, it's about being fooled for being kind and trusting someone you knew you shouldn't!

I constantly felt bad whenever I passed the charity stands who claimed they raise fund for good cause. But from now on, I think I want to stick to my old way.

No more kindness or trust to unknown people, no matter who they claim.they are!

Am I being unreasonable?

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JamieandtheMagicTorch · 09/04/2013 08:51

OP

don't stop showing kindness, that would be silly. But don't give anyone money unless you have sought them out. Then you'll be fine.

whosthis · 09/04/2013 08:57

Thank you, everyone! It's also interesting to read the stories from others on this stuff.

I won't stop caring but might really no more imprudence to strangers who pops into my sight randomly.

Will still try to call local safer neighborhood team, as several houses on our street are often vacant...

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LovePickles · 09/04/2013 10:21

I cannot stand unsolicited callers at my door. I don't answer my house phone either. Problem is, I can't see who it is without being dead in front of the glass door. I live in a bungalow that an elderly man used to live in with a 'if I don't know you I won't let you in' sticker. Wonder if there's anything else to warn them off...

whosthis · 09/04/2013 13:31

LovePickles we don't even have a fixed phone at home. Cellphone all for everything...

Probably will try to stick some warning in the front. But again, we just newly move to this small neighborhood and so far haven't seen anyone uses such kind of warning in the front door. Not sure if the neighbors would feel odd to see someone put up this kind of signs...

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