men and porn

[racheael76]

do all men look at porn.i am female and can honestly i never do. i think it is dirty watching strangers/ others bodies who been around so many !yuk not clean and sweet.i was upset to find on the history my other half had been viewing but i can also remember exs magazines to.i am so faithful loyal trustworthy i would never cheat,kiss another man i dont look at other men either.i just expect my man to be 100% true like me.is there any men out there?i would love to hear your views aswell.

Startail - your partner wanks in bed next to you? I find that really disrespectful. Neither me nor DH would just start knocking one out right next to each other without them being part of it. We either have sex (not usually PIV) together or would sort ourselves out alone, separately.

Nothing disrespectful in a bit of mastibation while the other kisses, hugs or tickles your nipples.

Why on earth would you take your pleasure alone, when you can do it snuggled up together in bed.

You don't always feel like PIV, I hate oral and I have a dodgy wrist so my had jobs are crap.

Wanking, mastibating, taking ourselves or each other it's never been an issue, but then we got engaged after six weeks having never been on a formal date, so I guess we never got round to being up tight about a lot of things.

Why on earth would you take your pleasure alone, when you can do it snuggled up together in bed.

Say you want a quick fiddle at 11am and your DH/DW isn't around to 'snuggle up' with?

Are you seriously suggesting it's abnormal or something to not want to wait until bedtime that night?

DP and I sometimes watch porn together, we find it a turn on. It's not a regular thing, but we both enjoy it when it comes out. I know my DP sometimes will 'help himself' whilst looking at pictures of topless women when I'm away, it doesn't bother me - I have my own fantasies inside my head when I 'have a play' so I see it as just the same! He doesn't watch porn by himself though, I think I'd find that weird, purely because we like to watch it together - so I'd be a bit put out if he decided watching it by himself was better!

I watch porn about 4 times a week and still have sex with my DP about 6 times. I just have a high sex drive.

Tbh im the opposite I couldn't be with a guy who doesnt watch porn as it would seem abnormal to me. My partner doesnt watch it much at all now but I know he does. (We live apart if makes a difference)

Everyone is different.

I don't personally watch porn and I don't think most of my friends do either and yes these are the same friends I mention who have been to the strip clubs with, that i mentioned on the other thread. I will stand by the fact far more men go to strip clubs than women think and probably far less watch porn than women think.

Some people watch it and some people don't (for a variety of reasons). Same as some people really like sex and want to have loads of it, and some are not interested in it at all.
Mind you, the same could be said of football, 'pampering', wine and churchgoing, really.

I love the way solid always manages to make porn sound so casual, warm and normal. Take it or leave it.

I like the way she also casually mentions on another thread that she "usually picked men up in clubs and shagged them"

pip pip!

I am a feminist, and I love pornography.

Congratulations

I don't care, any which way.

wonderful. pleased for you.

I have watched some, but it just doesn't really do anything for me. DW is more interested in it than I am.

I find porn dull. While I don't have strong moral views on it, I do get a bit irritated by the way it is treated as a sacred idol of self-expression before which everyone must bow.

If I want to watch animals rutting, I'll watch something presented by David Attenborough.

No dp doesnt he hates porn and did make a very popular guy on the feminist board.

OkayHazel....do you have some sort if point to make.

bp300 I think that you are wrong.

That would be 'of point to make?'

Sorry Startail - i misunderstood. I thought you meant while you were asleep or reading your book! In our house we just consider that having sex. PIV probably only happens in 1/4 of our intimate moments. (altho it is a distant memory since terrible birth trauma 7months ago :( )

Porn is no more a 'special' interest than football, computer games, sketching or shopping. You don't have to dig very deep to find unethical practices, exploitation and cruelty behind quite a lot of recreational goods and services (do you know the working conditions of the people who made the computer you are currently using?).