AIBU to expect a thank you!

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SIL (DW of DHs DB) and I had a falling out last year over an insensitive comment she posted on Facebook, we haven't spoken since and she threw a tantrum demanding via her DH that I apologise which I wouldn't, anyway 1 year on they moved abroad and she is visiting PIL with my DNs since the fall out I have always sent birthday and Christmas presents (she has never sent of my DS!) and today was the 1st time in a year we've seen each other and I had Easter eggs for DNs and a present for a birthday one of them is having Sunday.

Handed over the eggs to the Dns and she fucks off out without a word leaving kids with MIL.

No thank you, not even a hello - which I did say btw!

Fuming.

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Facebook has worked wonders for the social fabric of society, it allows family feuds to start without the family members even coming into contact, and when families are together it allows them to ignore each other by looking at Facebook on their smartphones.

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Thank you to everyone who posted, just wanted to close my thread off with a positive ending.

MIL doesn't drive and had something for DH, SIL is staying with PIL and she brought her over. Invited all in for tea and she apologised for a lot of her previous behaviour and spoke about a MH issue she was having, DM is in the field and I spoke with SIL about her, she said she was shocked as she thought my DSM was my DM and we had known each other 4 years.

PIL had a chat as well according to FIL,I think we have all made it clear we don't suffer fools and we have always been supportive, this support will continue but we won't tolerate crappy behaviour.

I had my nieces for the day for the 1st time in 3 years and loved every minute