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To think this is too long and bad for a virus?

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appletarts · 26/03/2013 12:05

Ok 3 year old daughter, had temp of 38.00 - 39.01 for 4 days, now so tired she can't get out of bed. Face slightly swollen, been shivering and going blue in lips from time to time. Eating and drinking and has episodes of being fine and running around and then crashes again. Doc checked ears, throat, chest etc and says no infection so no ab. I'm tearing my hair out. Surely this is more than a virus???? I'm on verge of a&e!

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YouTheCat · 26/03/2013 12:06

Sounds like a virus. I'd be asking about the lips going blue though.

LetMeAtTheWine · 26/03/2013 12:07

Have you tried NHS direct just to get another opinion? Sounds like something needs to be done!

HeySoulSister · 26/03/2013 12:08

She's been checked by a doc. 4 days doesn't seem that long to me

PurpleStorm · 26/03/2013 13:09

Viruses can make people very sick - but antibiotics won't help with a viral illness, no matter how ill the patient is, unless a secondary bacterial infection develops.

But given what you describe - especially the lips going blue - I'd be asking a doctor to check her out again, today.

MmeThenardier · 26/03/2013 13:16

Mine have had similar and its been a virus and lasted for longer than this.

Does she have other viral symptoms like a sore throat/ runny nose?

I would take her back to the Dr's if you're worried, 3 is very young and she may not be reporting all of her symptoms to you.

deadlift · 26/03/2013 13:51

Viruses can be very bad and long-lasting. For example, HIV is a virus and lasts forever and is very bad (although obviously isn't what your daughter has).

Flobbadobs · 26/03/2013 14:17

Running around and crashing out seems par for the course with a virus, mine certainly do that. The lips though would worry me. I would get her checked out again personally.

Lueji · 26/03/2013 14:23

Proper flu will easily last a week.
Shivering is when the temperature is going up. To do this, the blood is drawn inside the body too, which may well explain the blue lips. If her breathing is ok, it should not be a problem.

When is she running around? After Calpol? That's normal.
Let her rest.

Personally, unless she is feeling really poorly and in pain, I wouldn't give Calpol and just let the fever do its job. That way she can rest properly too.

Make sure you ease off the clothes when she is feverish.

BlameItOnTheBogey · 26/03/2013 14:24

Have they done a urine sample? My daughter's lips went blue when she has a bad urine infection.

minouminou · 26/03/2013 14:25

I'm not happy about the lips going blue either. I think your iron levels are deliberately reduced when you're under microbial attacks, as most bugs need the iron, so this could explain why she's looking oxygen-starved, especially if it's after running around, but I really would get a professional opinion. Take a pic or vid if poss when it happens.

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