Long story short. I have an ex from 12 years ago. I was only with him for a month and I dumped him because he was basically a control freak. Since then he's sporadically popped over my house and acts like he's my best friend. My most recent ex encouraged it because he felt sorry for him and felt he was harmless. I did get annoyed with him just turning up without being invited. Since I split up with my most recent ex he has been popping over more often. It had been nice to have someone to talk to to be honest.
A few weeks ago he asked if I wanted to have sex with him! Now I don't see him in that way at all,i've never ever given him any encouragement and he's never given even the slightest indication of this. I said no, in fact I was in such shock all I could say was no over and over again. If he had left it there it would have been ok. We could have forgotten all about it. However he followed me upstairs when I went to the toilet and asked if I was masturbating!
I kicked him out pretty sharpish. He sent me a message the next day saying hello sexy so I told him there'd never be anything between us and to leave me alone. He said he was sorry, didn't mean to hurt me and was only joking.
Since then he's left me well alone. Tonight he sends a message saying he's sorry, can't stop worrying about losing my friendship. I feel guilty now and don't know whether to reply or not.
So WIBU to continue to ignore him or should I forgive and forget?