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...to think that LinkedIn isn't so mum-friendly?

193 replies

semi · 24/03/2013 22:07

I am a working mum with quite a few professional contacts on Linkedin and have found that most self-employed women/mumpreneurs I've spotted in the press haven't got a Linkedin profile. What's that all about? Don't virtual networks well lend themselves to busy mums? Or is it that we just don't like to share what we are up to? Talk about our successes/achievements?

OP posts:
Tee2072 · 25/03/2013 12:51

"Alas, my greatgrandmother died of mumtrepreneur..."

Grin
DolomitesDonkey · 25/03/2013 12:53

Grrr. The title of your post just made me curl my lip. But scanning down you've already been told why.

My opinion is that it's not so widely used in the UK - and it's ripe for abuse anyway. It has the potential to be used the way some people collect friends on FB - and who need to be endorsed by a complete stranger?

Oh, and linked in is shit - should've mentioned that.

StillSeekingSpike · 25/03/2013 13:49

Does LinkedIn need a special MUM symbol so
a) little women can be offered lower status jobs, and not get any technical terms about cashflow as their husband does all that when he gets home from the City?
or
b) 'Mumtrepeneur' means the goods will be of low/ varying quality and standard as BUSY MUM is making them on the kitchen table inbetween breastfeeding Tabitha and helping Sebastian with his school project?

FloatyBeatie · 25/03/2013 13:55

Good idea. How about a dripping nipple. You could "Click the nip" to link up with other mums. If a professional is willing to work with a woman who has procreated they could have a dripping nipple with a thumbs up next to it on their profile; if not, then a dripping nipple crossed out.

PureQuintessence · 25/03/2013 13:57

LinkedIn is NOT anonymous. That is why you probably wont see any of us there.

I am there as a professional, networking with people I have met in a professional capacity. I am not there as PureQ !

But you would not know me, unless you knew my real name, or my company.
And I am not about to declare that to all mumsnet just to get a few more connections!

EduCated · 25/03/2013 14:12

I'm on LinkedIn but I don't have kids. If I have them in the future, do I have to notify them? Y'know, leave hospital, register the birth, inform LinkedIn that I am now a mother...

Tee2072 · 25/03/2013 14:18

Grin @ 'click the nip'.

annh · 25/03/2013 14:20

Has anyone yet worked out why LinkedIn isn't "mum friendly"??? What would being "mum friendly" mean on a networking site? Should it be pink with lots of those bouncing emoticons they have on Netmums? Surely women who are professionals and wish to be on LinkedIn will do so regardless of whether they are mothers or not? Confused by this thread.

PureQuintessence · 25/03/2013 14:21

There is no cupcake icon on the right hand side? Or twinkly banners and timelines?

PureQuintessence · 25/03/2013 14:22

I think we all need MUM tiaras. You know, to distinguish ourselves from other mums. You know the sahms and those who are non-preneurs.

EduCated · 25/03/2013 14:25

Ooh, I might start a new website. LinkedMum.

Would that make me a mumpreneur?

PureQuintessence · 25/03/2013 14:26

or MummedIn

PureQuintessence · 25/03/2013 14:27

Or how about MotherDin ??

EduCated · 25/03/2013 14:33

Hmm, not twinkly enough.

WillYouBeMyMummyFriend

LinkedHun?

EuroShaggleton · 25/03/2013 14:33

It really hasn't entered the vernacular, OP.

Linkedin is useful to some people who are in business. Whether they have passed a small person through their vagina* or not appears to be completely irrelevant to that.

*Or had a CS of course. But that made the sentence rather unwieldy.

I'm thinking through my friends who are working mothers and I'm struggling to think of even one who isn't on LinkedIn. Possibly one civil servant who doesn't really use the internet (was the last person I know in my generation to get online at home). And possibly one dr friend. But I can't think of anyone in business who isn't. Some are self-employed, some are employed. But they are all on there.

Springsister · 25/03/2013 14:35

Anyway Linked In are annoying and shite.
And they keep emailing me with "reminders" just like Friends reunited did just before they folded...

PureQuintessence · 25/03/2013 14:56

You can change your settings to not get reminders.

Anyway, lots of spammers send fake linked in reminders, which will download malware to your computer if you click the links.

NeoMaxiZoomDweebie · 25/03/2013 15:19

My status as a parent has fuck all to do with my profession. I am self employed and on LinkedIn. I am also a Mother. They've feck all to do with one another.

NeoMaxiZoomDweebie · 25/03/2013 15:20

Educated Grin at LinkedHun!

2rebecca · 25/03/2013 15:21

I think for many jobs Linked in is useless. I see it as aimed at the self employed or those in the sorts of businesses where networking with people you hardly know is important to try and get you more business.
If you work in most public sector jobs then it's all pretty irrelevent as most of us have more work than we can handle..

ilovexmastime · 25/03/2013 15:58

I'm not sure what this is all about tbh, but for the record I'm a self-employed mum with a LinkedIn profile. Also for the record, I find LinkedIn a really useful tool for my business.

motherinferior · 25/03/2013 16:03

I am a freelance journalist. I am on LinkedIn. It is occasionally useful.

I also gave birth twice. That fact is not on LinkedIn.

SatsukiKusukabe · 25/03/2013 16:15

are fathers dadprenuers or are they allowed to be people too?

TheRealFellatio · 25/03/2013 16:18

Plenty of professional men do not have a Linked In profile either. Just like facebook, some people do not feel a need or a desire to use it. I am not at all sure that being a er...'mumpreneur' Hmm has anything to do with it whatsoever.

badguider · 25/03/2013 16:21

LinkedIn is no place for any discussion or recording of my familial or romantic relationships. It's a professional networking tool. I only put information on there pertinent to my CV (I am freelance so don't even have mat leave on my CV).