DH is 30 on Friday. I've organised a surprise party for the Saturday. I believe he genuinely knows nothing about the party and thinks no-one is making much effort over his bday.
We moved 40mins away from our 'hometown' last year. Party is being held in our hometown. It makes it easier for the majority of guests this way.
Immediate family are coming to us on the Friday and we're going for lunch. DH stated, in a very arrogant and childish manner that he's not going anywhere for the rest of his bday weekend and if people want to see him they can come to us. He is being so stubborn on this one it is actually making me dislike him a lot! I'm 8 months pregnant and have had enough hassle organising the bloody party in the 1st place. The bloke doing the music pulled out yesterday so I'm now having to reorganise that as well as chase up so called friends about their plans to attend.
Right now I feel like telling DH all about the party and how he can shove the whole thing up his arse 
I'm not even sure if this has made much sense but it feels better having got it out of my system! AIBU or is DH behaving like a spoilt brat?!