The season of the Pox is upon us.
I have Ds bday party next Sunday.
I am aware that a small group attending has had siblings come down with it. They are all really pleased, it was all fine no complications and now its over. However I know they will be bringing other siblings to the party, who may be in the incubation period now, and may come down with it soon meaning at the party they there is a chance they will be infectous, and I know some other ladies coming have NB's and have had siblings who have had it quite badly.
The two groups vaguely know each other to say hi, but probably not to disclose that one side has had CP quite badly. Also one lady is quite panicky about her baby anyway as had probs with others.
My problem is, if it was that these DP were the DP of DS friends I wouldnt bother with them anyway as its always quite angsty and they are not my type.
If I tell the pox lot not to come, they wont understand that, as they are all relaxed and assume everyone wants it, they dont get the incubation thing and think the other sibs prob wont get it, and if I tell the other side, they may think I am a tittle tattle and they may not actually give a fuck, although one def will but wont pass it on.
However, if i dont say anything, ie that some dc may be infectuous when they come, and on the other side someones kid gets it badly, I will feel morally responsible as I was the one in the middle who knew both sides!
My DS have both had it so not a problem for me, or should I just not bother and let what wil be will be, the kids may not be infectous anyway?