Rit, DS got a detention for messing around in class - half an hour after school tonight, assuming it stays open! No problems there, have told the teacher I fully support whatever punishment she chooses to give and told him to suck it up and stop messing in class.
BUT! It's blizzard conditions up here and the school bus is notorious for either dropping all the children off in the village centre or just not turning up in weather like this.The school is not on a normal bus run and neither are we. The car is currently a couple of hundred miles away and I have to pick up Dd from primary school. I also have a 1yo.
Would I be unreasonable to contact the teacher and ask her to defer the punishment till next week? Not let the detention go, just put it back so he isn't potentially walking 3 miles in fairly strong winds and snow? He's a tough lad (12yo) and I don't baby him but I frankly will be worried sick until he gets home