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AIBU?

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Aibu or is she?

7 replies

milf90 · 18/03/2013 13:07

Sorry this might sounds really childish, but it's really getting on my nerves atm!

My best friend since primary school has a habit of going off on one amd being in a mood with you for ages over silly things. She doesn't always say whats bothering her shes just really short with you, gives you silent treatment etc.

This time I'm pretty fed up with it, I think it's pretty immature and IMO I haven't done anything wrong

2 weeks ago it was my birthday and I asked my friend if we could meet up. Last weekend was the only time she was free to do so, so we arranged to meet up Saturday evening (I go to hers). She text me the nwxt day to ask if I could go with her that Saturday to the school play where she works, I wasn't keen if I'm honest, but I wanted to see her so said yes. A few days after that she said she had gotten the dates wrong and it's on the Friday not the Saturday and she asked if I could still go. I explained that I couldn't because I don't finish work until half 6 at the earliest and even if I didn't have tea I wouldn't get to her until half 7 at te earliest whih would be too late.

I then didn't hear anything back from her. Nothig was rearranged for Saturday, she didn't text me back and as I wasn't feeling very well I didn't see the point in chasing her

Friday night she put a Facebook status (I know, I know!) that I think was aimed at me then was deleted about Half an hour later.

Yesterday I made a group for my bridesmaids o talkti wach other because none of them
Know each other and we were diacussig dress styles and hen party stuff - she was really short in all her replies ad at one point really rude to one of my oter feiends who she doesn't know.

I tried texting her last night to try and get inout of her what's up but she ignored my texts (I know she's seen it because it's iPhone to iPhone so it says the tome it's been read). I'm at a loss for wht to do now :/

So do you think she ibu or is it me???

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sooperdooper · 18/03/2013 13:10

YANBU - she's being very childish, I couldn't be bothered with someone if she's like this all the time

pictish · 18/03/2013 13:12

She sounds like a childish idiot.
Who has the time for people like that? Not me!

livinginwonderland · 18/03/2013 13:13

tell her to grow up!

ChipTheFish · 18/03/2013 13:18

She sounds like hard work. I think she is one of those people you need to be direct with. See her face to face or phone her and as her why she is acting like a child twat, and tell her that the next time she gives you the silent treatment, you are not going to come running.

DrGoogleWillSeeYouNow · 18/03/2013 13:19

YANBU.

So you could either completely ignore her... Don't text, call, and just wait for her to get in touch with you. Most sulkers love people to kiss their arse when they're in a strop, so ignoring her will really wind her up. Grin

Or you could text her saying that she's obviously in a huff for some reason and when she is ready to act like a grown-up and tell you what the problem is, you'll be happy to hear from her but until then can she leave you alone as you're not prepared to tolerate her rudeness any more.

Crinkle77 · 18/03/2013 18:41

YANBU she sounds pathetic

LemonPeculiarJones · 18/03/2013 19:21

YANBU. Agree with DrGoogle - ignore her or confront her stupid self-absorbed childishness head on.

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