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My neighbour fly-tipped on our property...

15 replies

ilovecolinfirth · 17/03/2013 21:41

Just moved house and we've got a fence at the back of the house which doesn't go to its full boundary. Behind the fence is a small bit of land of ours and an access road. We hired a skip for a few days and left it on the bit of land. this has now been taken away.

DH was out at the back of the house when he saw that someone had left a massive, old tv on our property where the skip used to be. At that moment, our neighbours adult son (who has learning difficulties) puts his head over the fence to say hello. My husband comments about the "little gift" someone has left us. Neighbours son says "oh, that was us. Well my sisters friend actually" we said it would be ok there" WTF?!!!

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mum382013 · 17/03/2013 21:42

ask them to take it back
how rude!

ChasingDogs · 17/03/2013 21:45

I'm gobsmacked on your behalf. Knock on the door and explain that, as it's your property, you'll have to pay to have their crap removed if they dump it there, and could they please take it to the tip where it belongs? Or dump it in there own garden. Maybe they're just ignorant and mindless, rather than malicious?

WorraLiberty · 17/03/2013 21:45

What did they say when your DH went round and told them what their son had said?

I hope they removed it straight away?

Granitetopping · 17/03/2013 21:46

Cheeky feckers!! Put it back in their garden!!

pigletmania · 17/03/2013 21:47

Deliver it back to them cheeky feckers

montage · 17/03/2013 21:47

I can only imagine they "offered" the use of your skip as a dumping ground while the skip was there and the friend decided it was ok to put it there anyway?

(and that's still massively cheeky!)

I would go round there. They probably didn't reckon with their son letting you know so soon and so directly though. Hopefully he has already told them he has informed you and they are somewhat embarrased Grin

JammySplodger · 17/03/2013 21:49

Take a photo first. Then go and ask nice and politely for them to remove it.

If they don't, call the council in the morning, asking for whoever deals with flytipping.

ilovecolinfirth · 17/03/2013 21:51

DH decided it wasn't worth the row as we need to keep on good terms with them...hoping they won't kick up fuss with planning permission in future.

I assume the son told his mum what he had said as there was a bit of a heated discussion about something. She's kept a low profile for a few days (normally she's ALWAYS there), and tv has magically disappeared now.

We're hoping the fact that she knows that we know is enough to stop it happening again. So annoyed though, so so sneaky!

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Buzzardbird · 17/03/2013 21:51

Cheeky bleeders. On their doorstep pronto!

Buzzardbird · 17/03/2013 21:52

Oh sorry, cross posted. As you were...

WorraLiberty · 17/03/2013 21:52

Why would it cause a row? Confused

All he had to do was knock and explain that the skip is no longer there, so can they please remove the TV.

apostropheuse · 17/03/2013 21:57

They've obviously removed the TV, so there's no problem now surely.

She might not even have known it had been put there.

ilovecolinfirth · 17/03/2013 22:00

I'm sure there wouldn't be a row, but it is the whole uncomfortable conversation "errrr, excuse me. You seem to have accidentally dropped this on our property...your son let slip"

"No idea what you're on about"

There is no way she didn't know about it. Hoping its the end of it, but kind of thinking what else are they capable of....

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ilovecolinfirth · 17/03/2013 22:01

I think the problem is that they were prepared to do it in the first place. It was only moved because they were found out...

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Hippee · 18/03/2013 19:21

People are so cheeky! We moved into a house that had been a commercial property before and the garden was very overgrown - when we started to clear it, it became obvious that all the neighbours had chucked their rubbish over the fence for years. In fact one neighbour said "we don't know what to do with our hedge clippings now you've moved in".

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