Don't want to turn this into a moany old man bashing thread but I've come to the conclusion that in general females get a raw deal in life and as mum to two DDs this makes me sad. We have been duped into working hard at school in the belief that the world is our oyster and we can 'have it all'. But as a working mum what this really means is 'doing it all'. In the next life (if there is such a thing) I want to come back as a man.