to think that this man clearly doesn't like or respect women too much at all?

[blueballoon79]

I was talking to a male acquaintance about cheating and why people do it. What started as a normal conversation turned into him stating that "It's easier for women to cheat as they've got a hole" and "Of course women are more likely to cheat, they have vaginas"

I don't know if it's just me being incredibly uptight but I found his comments deeply offensive and get the feeling that he can't be too keen on women at all?

I had to cut the conversation as it was annoying and upsetting me so much.

I'm not convinced he's intelligent enough to get headfairy's comparison. I'd be more inclined to say 'men have holes too, the one they talk out of and the one they shit out of, or one and the same in your case'.

I took it from your first post that his implication was that a man will stick it anywhere so that if a woman feels inclined to cheat, she won't have much trouble in finding a man who would be willing.

Where as a man would have to get a woman interested in the first place.

But either way, he's a twat. "A hole's a hole" is the sort of thing some of the boys in secondary school used to say. I've never heard an adult saying it. At least not the sort I'd ever be interested in talking to!

I'm guessing that this man's personality puts women off to the extent he's not had the chance to be anywhere near a "lady hole" for some time...

As a result he's a little hazy about how things work and either - as Flow4 -says thinks that innocent men simply fall into them, or that they come with some sort of switch that can be utalised when evil adulteress women spot a victim and which gives lady parts the qualities of a Dyson, inhaling poor innocent willies. Or maybe he's got biology and astronomy mixed up and has attributed the qualities of black holes to vaginas.

Whatever, he's a grade-A knob head who probably only gets to get it on with his "special sock".

Oh what a catch

Men have a hole too and a penis so does that make them more or less likely to cheat according to that fools logic?

To be honest I'd find a different local pub. The conversation in your current one doesn't sound too riveting.

It doesn't sound like a safe place to be. I pity any woman or 'hole-bearer' who goes in there.

Help me out here. Why do you even waste precious oxygen engaging with this thickoid? Does he have even one single redeeming quality?

does he have a mother? Or a sister? Are they sluts too? I mean, if pretty much all women are...

How depressing.

I once had a similar conversation with a bloke years ago. Very strange way of thinking indeed.

Lots of men view women as objects to fuck, nothing more, and that is all there is to it.

He's a sad article and not alone.

was it Jim Davidson? I remember seeing him on TV years ago saying that women were horrible and if they didn't let him have sex with them, he wouldn't have anything to do with them.

Don't know if I was more shocked at what he said, or at the fact that someone, somewhere is willing to have sex with Jim Davidson

Think I would be tempted to give him some leaflets on therapy and see whether he can see that his thoughts are not socially acceptable. Tilt head etc...

I'm not sure why I bother engaging with him at all as all he does is offend me constantly.

Yes treaclesoda he does have a Mother and a sister and more disturbingly a young daughter too.

he has a daughter?

What a fucking moron. Disgusting and truly stupid.

Don't bother with him! He's reduced you to a bodily organ and told you you are more likely to cheat than him to your face. He insults young women in a disgusting way.

He's a worthless prick. Honestly, find someone else to chat with. Don't worry about appearing rude. He doesn't give a fuck about insulting you!

Worrying. A red flag for a sexual abuser. Don't condone it.

Ewww grim

I think I would have to say something. "Hole" is boaky. And it makes no sense.

He has an arsehole, no? And clearly is one.

Yes, the "hole" thing really pisses me off everytime he uses the word. It makes me feel sick.

I sometimes wonder if he just thinks of the most degrading things he can say and then blurts them out on an evening in the pub.

Don't even agonise about it any longer blue. Just ignore and avoid from now on. Don't pollute your world when you not have to.

Put up social boundaries against vile creeps like this.

OP YANBU!

Toad Am baffled by your post (& no, I DEF don't mean as in 'having a diff/yr own POV' before anyone flames me here!) - just that I really can't see HOW that kind of alarming & misogynistic AND to point where genuinely thinks can say it out loud and that be his 'normal'? shit WOULDN'T piss someone off? Worse, if you ever read or watch anything about rapists; their mentality; view of women generally etc; HIS is precisely the kind of attitude/view of women they have. ESP when coupled with the comments on any group of girls being 'sluts' - aka they're probably 'RIGHT up for it' &/or 'could do with a good seeing too' etc etc.

TBH the bloke wouldn't just be pissing me off, he'd have serious alarm bells ringing in my head

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Stoic I was baffled by Toads post too! I fail to see how any woman could not find the comments extremely offensive!

What is it they say? If you're allowing someone like that to take up head space, you need put the rent up in your mind!

(It's not advice I'm good at following myself, but I reckon it's good advice!)

Don't give him any more chances. He's a hole (of the arse variety).

He despises women. That's only reason someone says something like this. I might make a brief exception for a young teenager surrounded by shitty friends, but not a grown adult.

Avoid him. You are under no obligation to even speak to such a cretin.