To not be able to find the chat form on my phone :(

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Just had a nightmare I'm very sensitive and get shaken up easily.

Weirdly it was an old memory, almost exact but more detail. It was coming out of church after picking up my brother from the youth club a few years ago. Two kids had been arguing for weeks with fights in school. Kid 1s dad went up to Kid 2s heavily pregnant mother, punched her to the floor and stamped on her stomach before being tackled by at least 3 other dads, then that fight was broken up by the mothers (easily 30 primary age children screaming while watching) the woman was very petite and the man was easily 6' 7 ish. I got told the next day the baby was born that night by emergency section. (That was the true story) then the dream went sideways and it was me who was pregnant and had been beaten, I had gave birth, DH and DS (I don't even have a son) had been killed in the fight and the baby was still born. Really shook me up :( btw the real baby is alive and approximate finishing primary, no real damage was done.

When will these horrible dreams stop and how can i find forums on my iPhone :(

Thank you in advance

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Blimey, no wonder you're having nightmares, it sounds a really distressing and violent situation. I'm so relieved to read the baby was fine, how could that man be such a monster??!

Have you ever talked to anyone about how it affected you? Even though you weren't directly involved it's bound to have taken its toll.

Is there anything in your life which might have caused you to worry more than normal? Like being pregnant or having a small baby/child, or something threatening you/your DC?

Thank you, the only distressing situations in my life were my fathers stroke and having a breakdown in school the next day in school age 11, but I got given a term off (about 3 months due to severity of it) and being severely bullied in secondary school (I'm 6'4 female, people used to jump on my back and jump on me, I don't remember much as I usually had a concussion afterwards, a lot of rape threats on me too, a boy in school even attempted to rape my two best friends to scare me, I hadn't done anything, I have ASD, I am a very easy target)

My life is full of short term traumatic events :(

I think a sleep would do me now, I'll revist my GP in the morning, talking to councillers doesn't help me, I think talking to people I trust a lot more easier as I am scared of unfamiliar places and people...

Good idea to see your doctor tomorrow

Hope you manage to get some peaceful kip, things do seem worse when you're tired and it's the middle of the night.