to be annoyed at my stepdad?

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Well probably I am but I'm so fucked off.
I fell out with my sister last year as she borrowed money then never paid it back, never bothered with my DC and slagged me off to my mum and stepdad when she found out I was pregnant.

I made a point to my stepdad and mum that I didn't want her knowing anything about me, my dc or my pregnancy, if she was that bothered she has my phone number and I deleted her of Facebook to prevent her seeing pics of my DCs.

Fast forward to today and my stepdad messages me about a pair of shoes I have for sale as my sister likes them, now the only way she would have seen these is to go through my photos on my step dads profile I'm furious, he knows my feelings on her knowing anything and agreed to not tell her anything so why allow her to do this?!

I have now decided I cant post anything about my DC or pregnancy on Facebook as I don't want her knowing which means I cant put anything up for my long distance friends to see.

This comes several hours after finding out my mum who won't ever look after my dc is having my nephew to stay for several days to give my sister a break, so upset that they never bother with me but will bend over backwards for her.

AIBU?

The stuff she said was overheard by me when she phoned my stepdad to slag me off, his phone is linked to his car and plays on speaker, she didn't know I was in the car at the time until after she said it.

I posted about the money when it happened it wasn't a lot but lent as she was deserate (then after told me she needed fags) and it was her attitude at paying it back that fucked me off, no apology just a text saying soz aint got it, "you cant have what I aint got so tough" and also telling me that I was pathetic for asking it back when I told her it left me short for my daughter's birthday.

And yes the snooping fucked me off because if she is going to be that horrible to me I dont want her in my life and feel its an invasion of my privacy, if she wants to know how my dc are or see them she can damn well pick up the phone and apologise, not go through other people.

*The stuff she said was overheard by me when she phoned my stepdad to slag me off..."

Which soap plotline did you get that idea from?