To be pissed off when DH gets himself a drink

[brummiegirl1]

May sound petty but i find it so annoying when DH comes into the room with just a drink for himself and not both of us.

Especially after i always cook, he would get the shock of his life if i just cooked dinner for myself!

There you go - dinner for one tomorrow then? :)

I would be bloody annoyed if my DH made a cup of tea and didn't offer me one. Surely it's just courtesy?

YANBU that's just rude

Rude!

Rude As!

yanbu!

it is common courtesy! Especially when he is at work he usually phones asking whats for tea! Tomorrow i think i will say what ever you coook!

Rude! I'd pick him up on it every time!

Very rude and inconsiderate.

Yes, it's rude. Have you pointed it out to him?

Why don't you just say 'Where's mine?'?

You could do him a reward chart. A star for each time he offers you a drink when he makes one, and he loses a star when he doesn't. If he gets enough stars he gets dinner

When he's mastered that work on him making the dinner too

Yes i point it out, he just say's i didn't think you wanted one! I tell him, it would have been nice to be asked.

Acksherly.

I am afraid I beg to differ. I am watching my diet and wine intake and if DH brought me a glass of wine every time he had one, I would not have lost two stone

I do realise this is a bit different from what you mean though OP and couldn't resist the opportunity for a stealth boast, oh no

Oh, Headfirst has a good plan!

Sounds a good plan Headstart!

Very bad manners. Even if he knows the answer would be no, he should still ask. As would you, presumably. So rude!