AIBU to not want a relative to take dds aged 8 and 10 ice skating, and want to supervise them myself when they skate?
I would take them myself and have done so a couple of times, but think that its actually quite a dangerous activity in terms of possibility of injury occurring.
Partly this is to do with this particular relative not having dc and not being that tuned in to the amount of support my younger child might need to help her negotiate an ice rink safely (i'd feel ok letting mil take them).
I am happy to go all together as on outing, but do feel anxious about relinquishing full responsibility.
AIBU / overly anxious to engineer things so that this relative doesnt take them alone?