My husband come home from work tonight and told me that his boss said " I should get up with the baby and husband should sleep at night" To be fair to him he responded "she does get up with the baby and i do sleep".
I feel really fed up with this that they have been talking about us and the only thing i can think of that has made them say this is husband was late for work last week(15 minutes late) but he told them he was going to be late as we had a bad night with our youngest. Thats because our baby was ill and wouldn't sleep all night, i was nearly feeding him all night on me for comfort and when i put him down he wa screaming. I didn't ask my husband to get up but he was woke up by the crying. I told him to go back to bed and i only called him at 3.00 when i couldn't keep my eyes open any longer. He had the baby for just under an hour and i finally got to sleep at 5.30 and was up at 7.30 with toddler.
The thing is there was no way of DH not being disturbed as he was already in the other room and i had baby in his crib in our room. It also annoyed me that they obviously think i don't need my sleep too.
I can just imagine that they think i must stay in bed and DH gets up. Last year i stayed with my mom for 6 weeks while she recovered from a hip replacement and i had both boys with me so DH didn't have to worry about dropping our toddler off so could go straight to work so DH had all them weeks of unbroken sleep and i did the lot on my own. I know i should't care what they say but it's the thought of being talked about especially as i used to work there too until i took redundancy.