And a wanking bastarding arsehole?!
Haven't had anything to do with him since middle of last year when he shouted "fuck you, you fat cunt" down the phone at me...charming!
However, about three years ago he had an affair for 12 months behind his p's back (the one who he had an affair with when he was married to my mum). He left her and moved in with me for a few weeks (total hell!) he leaned on me far too much and treated me as a friend not daughter. My brother and sister had cut contact long before this for various reasons. He put me in shitty situations and asked me to lie for him etc. We had (year another) row when we stopped speaking because I told him he couldn't do this anymore, it was ridiculous he needed to get a grip on his own life and stop involving me, cue the screaming. Haven't spoken since. He left LOADS of stuff in my cellar when he left his p, they got back together and he never moved the stuff. I'm now moving house so messaged my step sister to let him know his stuff needs to go. Message back "not bothered 4 stuf ta tho"
WHAAAT?! Its been there 3 years, I don't drive so can't get rid of it. He is cutting his nose off because he doesnt want to see me. AIBU to sell it AND bill him for 3 years rent?! 
obviously not going to, just ranting. He really is a prick!! And breathe.....