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to be a bit naffed off with my husband?

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Bejeena · 05/02/2013 19:52

Ah I probably know the answer to this but, well before moving on and getting over it thought I'd see what someone else thinks.

I am 12 weeks pregnant and have been as sick as a dog for the last 6 weeks. Hubby has been doing his share of cooking most of the time and I have been very grateful to him and always say this when we have dinner (usually it is me that makes meals, I like to cook)

Hubby has come down with a cold and last night fidgeted, coughed and snored so much that I hardly got any sleep. In fairness to him he did offer to sleep on sofa but I told him no need (but didn't know how disturbed my sleep was going to be).

Tonight I came home from work and it was pretty clear that he wasn't cooking anything so I offered to make dinner, which I then did. We ate, no thanks from him or anything. Then he goes into the kitchen and tells me off for not emptying the dishwasher whilst I was cooking (I was doing other things) and then gets angry because I put a brush with bit of oil on work surface and he has to wipe the work surface!

I wouldn't mind but I was already pretty exhausted when I got in anyway and still feel quesy all the time and all he can do his just moan. He has now slunk off down the cellar to do some tidying up and pottering, this tells me he wasn't really too ill to cook!

Arghhhh men....

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scarletforya · 05/02/2013 20:00

Kill him with FIRE!

scarletforya · 05/02/2013 20:01

Sorry! YANBU.

filibear · 05/02/2013 20:18

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Bejeena · 05/02/2013 20:25

Ha I love it, whenever I mention where he can shove certain items (the brush would be a perfect example) he usually just retorts that there is no room as he has had to shove so many other things up there!!

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ScarletLady02 · 05/02/2013 20:31

YANBU....I was actually about to post a very similar thread about my DH feeling a bit "put upon". I've had a UTI for about a week and he's been mostly great, but he was a bit of a tit today.

buildingmycorestrength · 05/02/2013 20:36

I do think they make you swear 'in sickness and in health' for a reason...cause it is so pissing awful when you are both sick, who wouldn't want to bail. Smile

Shakey1500 · 05/02/2013 20:39

snort at "Kill him with FIRE!". Short but effective (the phrase I mean, not the burning. Wouldn't be short at all, probably a long, slow painful burn etc)

Anyhow, he was an arse Grin

LindyHemming · 05/02/2013 20:44

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SoggySummer · 05/02/2013 20:47

Dump the bastard!

Seriously men think Man Flu trumps everything.

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