I think I need to pull my DS out of nursery. What do I do?
So far I've paid £320 deposit plus a month in advance but the contract says I need to give 2 months notice.
DS has not yet started there but I've spent 10 hours or so trying to settle him in and he hates it, so much so that he's become very clingy and insecure even at home. I would persevere if I had confidence in this nursery but after spending all these hours in there with my DS I am not happy at all with what I've seen. The staff are mostly uncaring and they let the children cry a lot, especially when they wake up or if they don't go to sleep like they think they should; they hardly try to entertain the children at all and they children get bored of playing by themselves and start to cry; a little girl was crying so much that her nose was bleeding and they didn't even take any action or record it in the accident book. I am distressed at the thought of leaving my child there 
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Would I be unreasonable to write a letter and explain all of the above and then say I don't think I owe them any more money considering the awful stuff that goes on in there and the fact that DS hasn't even started there and I've already paid a hefty deposit plus one month in advance?
Please be gentle. I'm feeling quite anxious about all this.